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Infamous Member
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Lesbian non-stone femme
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She, her
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Committed to being good to myself
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i think the circumstances would be different if my partner and I had been together for several years and she became injured/disabled or depressed and she either was temporarily or permanently no longer able to be sexual. As long as we shared intimacy, I could deal with it.
If it were a new relationship and we had not developed a level of intimacy and depth; I would not want to continue.
Not all partners have the same libido. It can also vary depending on the circumstances.
I think it doesn't matter how it is for other people.
The question for you is if you can accept her, as she is, for the rest of your lives together.
You are just as entitled to your needs as she is to hers.
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~Anya~
Democracy Dies in Darkness
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"...I'm deeply concerned by recently adopted policies which punish children for their parents’ actions ... The thought that any State would seek to deter parents by inflicting such abuse on children is unconscionable."
UN Human Rights commissioner
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