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Originally Posted by 4everlonelyfemme
I know for a fact I'll be single for the rest of my life. I've met pretty much every butch here in Estonia, and lots of men as well.
Nobody wants me.
Everyone wants to chat to the pretty girls. I'm either one of the guys or invisible.
And that's with as much effort and money put into my appearance as I possibly can 
So... Just taking it one day at a time, coping, trying to find comfort in alcohol and bars over the weekend, and sometimes into the week...At 21 the thought of a lifetime of this....I was born to suffer.
Pure hell.
Whenever I see couples I feel so much pain I want to strangle someone, seriously. And I'm about as cuddly and nonviolent as you can find. But we all have a breaking point. |
Dr. Seuss said, "Why fit in when you were born to stand out?"
To be honest, negativity and hopelessness leak out and people pick up on that. What attracts folks is a positive attitude regardless of the fact you're single, and a realization that you are amazing on your own
. I get lonliness-everyone feels that, even in a huge party. You can't always choose whether you're coupled or single, but you get to choose your attitude and your actions.
If you think it's suffering to be single, try being in the wrong relationship-one you get into when you feel that's as good as you can get.
I already know something that sets you apart from 99% of the rest of the femmes here-you probably speak Russian and a host of other languages (besides learning English), and you're
surrounded by Estonia! When you focus on what makes you unique and on your good qualities, you will become attractive.
That genius Dr. Seuss also said "No one is youer than you".