I would request a pre-nup. Realist here.
At work I see daily people in stealing from family. Its also family and friends putting bugs in ears to TAKE what you can. People can be greedy and sometimes its not about the money, but revenge. Maybe, I am jaded due to my job.
I am not young and I have a 401k, IRAs and savings. I am not in a position to start over. I have worked very hard for what I have.
Don't see this as I am unwilling to share, it means if hy or she finds someone new or wants to move on, I don't want to be the one supporting their retirement.
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