Many of the victims I have worked with have left their impression on my heart...especially when they say they "can never do or say anything right...they always get blamed for stuff they didn't do...or they are afraid of setting the abuser off, because they are afraid they will be the target or blamed for the abuser's random "bad temper"...they are afraid of walking on egg shells...
A comment made in a support group reminded me of this quote...
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She has been through hell, so believe me when I say, fear her when she looks into a fire and smiles.
~E.Corona~