The way i feel about forgiveness is this:
It is actually a gift i give to myself when i forgive others.
When i find that i want to forgive someone, it is not for them necessarily but for myself. It is the ease of the flow. I enjoy the positive of karma that it brings and the light out of the storm.
Sometimes it is done at the deepest levels and sometimes it is just a surface forgiveness, if that makes sense.
Either way it feels good and nurturing for myself, and that is always a healthy thing.
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~ I've learned that people will forget what you said,
people will forget what you did,
but people will never forget how you made them feel. ~
Maya Angelou
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