08-10-2012, 08:55 AM
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Originally Posted by KayCee
If something happened or was said that was really really hurtful that would need forgiveness but I can't ever forget, not even over time, no matter how much I try, then for me there is no forgiveness either.
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i totally understand...i've had some seriously nasty, unfair, false and/or unjustified things said or done to me over my lifetime...just because i've forgiven does not erase the memory of what happened and forgiveness is not automatic or immediate for me...it takes time.
There is no right or wrong way, everyone must take their own path and do what is best or what works for them.
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