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|  03-12-2011, 04:35 PM | #1 | 
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			As many of you know SweetCali has been fighting cancer for the last 2 plus years. She is a fighter! We have been with hospice since Jan of 2010.  Right now shes needs your postive energy to help her make the transiton to her next adventure. She had/ has big love for everyone here and has missed not interacting as of late, but trust me when I say she still has that sense of humor and a nail file to blop you with. thanks Mike | 
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|  03-12-2011, 04:42 PM | #2 | 
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			Words can't express how to help her make that next transition or her next happy adventure For all the pain and suffering she has been doing, there has to be something better over the horizon I certainly know as loved as she is around here, she'll be loved even more where she goes My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours in this time of pain and sorrow Keep all those memories in your heart and your head will have a whole lot of stories to tell Peace be with you, always 
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|  03-12-2011, 04:43 PM | #3 | 
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			SweetCali, Mike, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.   
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|  03-12-2011, 04:47 PM | #4 | 
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			K, I've had the honor to know you, share meals with you, and road trip with you. You are the kindest of souls and your love means a lot. You are laughter wit, and one of the best human beings I know. It's gonna be ok, by this time next year I'll be driving Worm to some kind of basketball event or the beach hell even both. It's time to go lil momma, we love you. Snow   
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|  03-12-2011, 04:49 PM | #5 | 
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			Bop her back, if you dare. I have been wondering about Ms. Cali. Please give her a bite of some really yummy chocolate, And send her some zombie love. | 
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|  03-12-2011, 04:53 PM | #6 | 
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			sweetcali....all the best to you and yours. Rope-- | 
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|  03-12-2011, 04:56 PM | #7 | 
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			Mike and Sweet Cali... Sending you all the love I have inside of me - You are not alone and loved by so many. It is an honor to know you and to have shared time with both of you. May your journey be peaceful and filled with great love. I Love You! Julie   
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|  03-12-2011, 05:01 PM | #8 | 
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			May the rest of her journey be filled with the love you share and all the peace you both can hold. Blessings to you both. 
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|  03-12-2011, 05:07 PM | #9 | 
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			K, I will always remember meeting You & Mike in Oakland...... My understanding is, that Your next big adventure is crazy wild! Melody's there, waiting for You......she has chocolate and an organizational list for You! I am honored to have farmed with You......  ~Your Diva | 
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|  03-12-2011, 05:08 PM | #10 | 
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			I knew the first time I laid eyes on her she was something special. I bet you did too, Mike   Sweet, You are an amazing soul, a kind heart, and a generous spirit. We love you and are thankful to call you a friend. Our very best love to you and a wish for peaceful days ahead. xo. 
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|  03-12-2011, 05:29 PM | #11 | 
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			Sending love and light to Sweet Cali and to Mike...   | 
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|  03-12-2011, 05:31 PM | #12 | 
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			Peace, light and love sent to you and your precious Lady. My thoughts and prayers are with you both.   
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|  03-12-2011, 05:34 PM | #13 | 
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			Peace.....
		 
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|  03-12-2011, 05:35 PM | #14 | 
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			Mike & Callieeeeeeeeeeeeeee  I will have you in my prayers. I still dream of the day when she will "really bop me over the head with that damn Nile file and then steal my Choc. truffles" You both have been such a huge part of the community I wish you well in the next journey for both of you and the heathens!! I miss you Callie *smooches* Signed, The little shit! *smile* | 
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|  03-12-2011, 05:36 PM | #15 | 
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			Sending love and light  to Sweet Cali and Mike   
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|  03-12-2011, 05:53 PM | #16 | 
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			sweet love to you Cali and Mike as a new journey phases into you lives..our arms stretch around you and continue to embrace you and send you our greatest strength as a community.... unity. You never stop being part of us...even when you are quiet.... lots of chocolate flavored thoughts to send your way....
		 
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|  03-12-2011, 06:17 PM | #17 | 
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			I have missed both of you, ever since I left Oakland.  I treasure those memories, as I do all of the chat memories.  Sweetness, I don't think you know how deeply you touched me.  Thank you for all of the bops with the glass nail file, and the truffles shared, but most of all, thank you for your love.  Max sends his best too.
		 
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|  03-12-2011, 06:22 PM | #18 | 
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			Sending many prayers and much love your way..   | 
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|  03-12-2011, 06:27 PM | #19 | 
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			Sweet...when I first started coming to these sites...you were one of the first people to welcome me and make me feel at "home".  Through the years, your kindness and generosity of spirit was a consistent presence.  You are an amazing woman and I know you will begin your new journey with your ever-present strength and wit and nail file   .  Sending you all the love and positive light I have (and a truckload of truffles) 
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			lots and lots... (((((((((sweet,Mike,and the girls))))))) | 
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