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06-17-2015, 05:39 PM
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Be still my swooning femme heart...
It's that time of year again!!!
That's right! It's time for DapperQ's top 100 fashionista Tomboys, Butches, Studs, Genderqueers and Transmasculines! Feast your lovely starved eyes on the fabulous personhoods of these amazing folk... (Not, it's not ranked, it's just really appreciatative) 100 most stylish dapperqs 2015 |
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06-17-2015, 05:44 PM
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Starved eyes is exactly right ! Thank you for sharing. DC |
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06-17-2015, 06:53 PM
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I love that there are butches of all ages, colors, sizes, styles. well done list
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06-17-2015, 09:03 PM
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I like that too. I do get intensely bored of seeing only white, slim, 20-something represented as sexy in the queer fashion blogs. So much so that I stopped following most of them in tumblr.
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06-17-2015, 09:09 PM
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I am glad to see a mix of folks on the list however, I do not really agree with the clothing, what ever happened to the classic cowboy look, it's a bunch of suits and ties to me, which is not for me but they seem to be a common thread in these lists.
Ho Hum.
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06-17-2015, 09:42 PM
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Cougar siting!!!!!
The list did include people of all ages/races/shapes/sizes/style.
I have to admit, though, that I am weak at the knees for a stylish, small chested, 35 - 50 age range butch. Come to Momma!!!!! 
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06-18-2015, 05:38 AM
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If you looked hard enough, you'd find other sites/blogs/etc that showcase a more down home kind of look. |
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06-18-2015, 08:26 AM
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But for me its all about energy, eye contact, the casual ease with which they seem to occupy their space, the softest of smiles that drips with intent, thats what makes my knees weak. the size of someones chest, or their body size, height etc are of no consequence..........butch energy comes in many forms, I drink it in with my soul rather than my eyes.  DC |
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06-18-2015, 08:38 AM
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This was a great list! I'm swooning as well. I was really happy to see so many sizes, styles, and fashions represented. I feel like I only ever see skinny white butches as well, and sometimes its disheartening. I love bigger butches with bellies and big arms.
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06-18-2015, 09:13 AM
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06-18-2015, 09:22 AM
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One of my heroes, Nikki Giovanni, is on the list looking good in a cream-colored linen suit and spectator shoes. She is so damn cool. |
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06-18-2015, 09:58 AM
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My Butch hubby wears a mans Italian suit daily.
I swoon every time I see her.....suit or not...the person makes the outfit and this person I married makes me swoon I am lucky, I swoon daily, I might make that a bumper sticker. Yummy |
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06-18-2015, 02:13 PM
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06-18-2015, 04:07 PM
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I take this as a preference, not a requirement. My preference is for a dark and chubby butch, but that hasn't stopped me from falling head over heels for a fair and smallish butch. Neither does it mean I'll fall for every dark and chubby butch. It's just a preference, Rock. That's all.  O |
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06-18-2015, 05:45 PM
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Whenever I see a list like this I always think I should go get a couple more suits.
Then I shake my head and am like nah. It might not be the most "stylish", but I'm partial to a comfortable pair of jeans and a t-shirt. And luckily I don't have one of those jobs where I have to dress up. I can get away with khakis and a polo.
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Flapdoodle, this is so nice. I think your butch is very lucky too, to be so appreciated. I too like the fact that this collection is quite diverse in terms of different types of butches represented. On the age thing, I agree with everything Orema said. Sorry Rock if it hit a sore spot for you. Sometimes when femmes talk about liking tall butches I do bristle a little, but again it is only a preference. When I read Fever's post I actually found it refreshing when she said "Come to Momma" and stated her preference loud and proud. I am not a young butch and not looking for a Momma, but it was just refreshing because we don't hear it that often I don't think. We hear plenty about Daddy/girl (which is great, don't get me wrong!) and older butch with younger femme, but not that much about Mommas or younger butches with older femmes. In my experience (both personal and from observation) there are lots of femmes who are very open to potential relationships with butches that are older than them and even significantly older. So I don't see ageism at work in terms of it being a widespread problem where older butches are not desired or valued by femmes- just my opinion!
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06-18-2015, 08:01 PM
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06-18-2015, 08:19 PM
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I saw the other links but still too suit and tiesh for my liking, I think my whole point is to base attraction not on how someone dresses but their heart and personality!
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06-18-2015, 10:51 PM
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Of course.
But some butches love the look of femmes in lingerie and would *love* 100 photos of REAL FEMMES - and not just celebs - in beautiful dresses, long gowns, lingerie and swimwear. This is the same things, for us. Because many many femmes doesn't get to see maculine females or transmasculines in their daily life. And I LOVE that it's not just North Americans. I love that there are eurostylistas and the UK. DapperQ is not just 'Murica Butch. I can see down home casual on the street where I live. This is my candy for missing living in London... And I love love love seeing it. Just as much as a butch loves seeing a femme dolled up. It's been decades of waiting for things like this, for us. To even see it in some form of media. Now that's it's here, I am so so happy I can see what turns me on when I have to go weeks without seeing masculine females and genderqueers. |
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06-18-2015, 11:32 PM
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[QUOTE=imperfect_cupcake;995755]Of course.
But some butches love the look of femmes in lingerie and would *love* 100 photos of REAL FEMMES - and not just celebs - in beautiful dresses, long gowns, lingerie and swimwear. imperfect, I would love to see this list of 100 Real Femmes in all shapes, sizes, styles, etc. we butches would be swooning ourselves, sigh 
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