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01-11-2012, 12:27 PM | #1 |
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Bringing It Up: Describe The Butch You Are
I had come across a thread "Describe the Femme that you are" but, when I searched to find a counter part for this thread I could not....I find it interesting and would enjoy hearing from other butches on how they see themselves as individuals.
As I have aged, my views of myself have not so much changed, but have developed and brought me to the place I am today. I look back 10, 20 and 30 years ago and it makes me laugh, I thought I was the toughest, baddest, fucking butch around....and as the years went by, I realized I am not that bad...tough yes, strong definitely and well although my wildest years are behind me, I am still pretty wild. I am not afraid of the soft, sensitive side of me, I thought it was a weakness years before, but I can embrace it.....yes, I am a woman. I identify with female pronouns because that is how I feel....when I first came out in my teens, I did not like this, I wanted to identify as a male, but like I said I have come to be okay with who I am. I say this for myself and would never judge anyone, I am me, and I am learning it is okay to have my own opinion of me. I am at times impulsive, but it is alright, I find myself growing daily....I learn from my mistakes, pick myself up and go on. I don't blame others for the things that happen to me, I don't like chaos and I hate drama.... Ok now for the good things about me....I am great with my hands, I can fix anything, design anything, create anything. I am a visual and sensual person, I love to gaze at the stars, walk along the beach, smell wild flowers, breathe in and take in all life has to offer. I love dancing, candle light dinners with a wonderful femme, and long nature walks.... I can be wild and aggresive, passionate and sensual, or playful and serious.... I sometimes wonder if I will ever grow up, but then again I wonder why I would want to....yes, I would want to take care of a femme in my life, but I know it is okay to have a playful side, a silly side that does not need to change. I would want the femme in my life to feel safe, to feel protected and to know she has all the love and support possible... I would want her to feel she always has a safe place to land. There would be no question about her being treated special....I am very much a gentle wo(man), doors open, order first, sit first, etc, etc..... I am sure I will think of more things, but for now, this is all I have to say...I would enjoy hearing from others.
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01-13-2012, 01:02 PM | #2 |
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The butch I am...
For starters, I am a young butch, so there's still things in my young life that I have yet to discover and to learn. My journey to know has not been an easy one at all, for I have had a very hard life and had to grow up way too fast. At 20, that's not such an easy thing for me to do at all. Makes me wish that I could slow it all down at times. Still, through it, I've had some fun and crazy times to tie in with all the hard ones. I think the hardest thing for me was when I lost my father at 18. That experience there really opened up my eyes and made me gradually become stronger, and from it, I learned to cherish things in my life a lot more. The butch I am is also a fighter, and will stop at nothing to win over whatever struggle I may be facing. The butch I am, is simple, yet all one person. And I will stop at nothing to help someone, even if that means sacrificing my own happiness to do so. More than that, the butch I am..is human. |
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01-14-2012, 03:20 AM | #3 |
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I am simple yet complicated ...
I have history, a past, a present, a future goals... dreams... and a strong work ethic I am almost always positive... everything happens for a reason I am a spiritual Christian who doesn't judge others I am strong & handy... stubborn & stern(at times) I am gentle, loving, & kind... with a warm smile I am versatile... hy, she, sis, mister...depending on occasion & company I am constantly learning I am a thinker/ problem solver I am a trusted vault to my closest friends I am respectable dependable honest & organized I am Butch ....slacks & tie or work boots & jeans I am a detail oriented cheezy romantic I am a true Country Boi who can survive the city I am lover of watching the earth rotate, water, & "feel good" movies *tip hat*
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01-17-2012, 03:32 PM | #4 |
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01-17-2012, 03:51 PM | #5 |
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I'm an old school butch who's sensitive, loving, loyal, kind, too sweet and always there for those in need. I have a big soft center that I hide from the world but share with those I care about. Sometimes I've been known as the mean looking lesbian. That's just my hard ass shell. But if you know me then you know the truth.
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01-17-2012, 04:22 PM | #6 |
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the Butch I am
Those 5 letters are just a "description of me...and in NO WAY makes who I am inside or in my heart!
I am a true southern gentlewomyn...with manners, courtesy, respect, and gentleness abounding. I am of the old fashioned, old school breed...one who will open doors, pull out chairs, walk on outside of and offer arm to a lady, help her with her coat, even helping to get her hair out from under the collar and prettily displayed against her soft shoulders. I will wait for her....patiently..never rushing her., as she gets dressed for our date. I will look at her with tears in my eyes when she emerges from her room...seeing how stunningly beautiful she looks!!! I will shop with her for hours, carrying her parcels. I will rub her feet as we sit in the food court sipping an ice cold beverage while she regains her momentum to "shop til she drops" again! I will order for her if I am acquainted with her likes and dislikes, OR if she tells me what she would want, and I will give the whole order. I am attuned to her at all times. I will always appreciate her...as she is an incredible gift...she has given of herself to me..and I can be entrusted with that awesome gift! I "get", comprehend, and validate Her feminine mystique! I wil always acknowledge her, validate her existence, and put her above all else. I will watch chick flicks with her, wiping away tears at the sappy parts, and handing those same tears back to her as diamonds. I will be teary eyed and sensitive along with her. I will cherish her like a true and priceless trasure she is. I will never take her for granted! I am a best friend...to many I am a confidant, one that keeps those things sacred! I will hold her sacred in all ways..sharing intimacy only between ourselves! I will lay down my life for the woman I love and who owns my heart! She will have my undying loyalty and committment should our hearts beat as one. I will treat her like an equal, always..and we will walk side by side...never "owning" one another....yet connected by our hearts! I can cook, clean, mow a lawn, fix a flat, iron a silk piece (steam it rather) mend a boo boo with a kiss and a bandaid, and I can fight fiercely for our lives. I have won many battles on the battlefield of life..and that is who I am today..a culmination of love past..love lost..and love remains a constant in my heart..never making me jaded, cynical, or bitter. I chose those pathways, and I walked them...I took lessons from them, and made changes from them..positive changes.... So I am many things....an incredibly devoted friend, a loyal companion, a soft hearted, sensitive, compassionate gentle womyn...and it is nye impossible to "describe" one's self..for in the end..what really matters is who you are when with another person...words are just descriptions..so I am a human being with an amazing heart and I have moral compass, and turpitude. I am old fashioned, and old schooled...as I will always, always put the ladies first..and when I meet HER..she will decide for herself what kind of a BUTCH I am..as she will see deeply inside and know my heart..that is where my "butch" lives.
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