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12-30-2009, 10:40 PM | #1 |
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What do you want?
Seems like people have a fairly good grasp on what they don't want but often times fail to address the things they really do want in a partner and/or relationship.
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I want trust and loyalty. I want to be able to be my quirky self always. I want my friends and lovers to not run away from my different-abilities. I want to live voraciously TODAY and know that when my illness wins, those that love me will continue to love me and my Adele-isms.
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I want respect and trust and faith in me and us as a cohesive unit. I want freedom to be myself and understanding during the times that I am not so wonderful. I want laughter and wit and brilliance. I want the patience of a saint and the integrity of a hero. Hell, I want a hero. And I want to be his heroine.
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12-31-2009, 04:47 PM | #6 | |
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Oh. My. Gawd. I've never seen a better description of Gryph, and our relationship. I'm betting Ryan is very much like him... May you have what you want, Gemme. It's totally worth the wait! *and here I thought I wouldn't have anything to say in this thread!* |
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I want to know that in their eyes, I am the best girl in the room, no matter who else is in it. I want to be able to always look into their eyes and see love there, even when those eyes have faded. I want someone I can depend on, because they will always be able to depend on me. I want someone who can love me despite my flaws, its in my flaws that you can see me for who I am, and who does not expect me to be perfect. I want someone who can accept being loved in return. I want someone who will hold me when I cry and not mock my tears, stand with me when my back is against the wall, calm me when I rage, rejoice with me when I laugh, and dance with me in the rain. I want honesty, and truth, and respect, and the freedom to love, and be loved, unconditionally.
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Not a darn thing. Really... not a thing.
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The thing is this. I have falsely assumed that I had those things. Until it became glaringly clear that I didn't. I have never in my life felt so *safe* (in a non boring way) before I married Cal (Plato on this site). I have also forged friendships amongst Femmes that make me feel equally safe. I cherish that. Having people travel across the country whilst I am in the ICU rambling feverishly at them about utterly non-sensical things restored my faith in Femme Alliances that I needed/wanted but was scared to death of after walking away from psuedo friendships that left scars so deep I thought I'd never let another penetrate. Loyalty and Trust are oft espoused by people in theory, but in practice the selfish "what's in it for me?" mode seems to win out. I married somebody who knows my quirks, past history, familial strife and doesn't judge me. Instead this person is my rock and my anchor. We are a team. Silly perhaps, but I've not had that before. I cherish it. |
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12-31-2009, 12:13 AM | #10 |
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tall order
I realize it's a tall order. I want someone who can pick figs by the time they are 3, and put them neatly in a zip lock bag, in case someone might want to take a picture. Some one who could skin a buck and scale a fish. Or remove a countertop, sink and all and toss it outside for the trash. Someone who could rip all the peach fuzz off my face with some over priced duct tape. Some one with crazy skills in basketball or tennis. Someone who's destiny is to be eaten by sharks. That really narrows my list, but I'm hopeful.
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At the moment...........
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for hym to kiss my soul
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Laughter from the deep belly Tall enough I can stand under her chin (cause I am super tall at 5' f*ck all) A good enough wrestler she can let me believe I pinned her That's all for now...
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what I want ???
a million bucks.. lol lol ok ... someone whom is honest mature loyal knows who they are knows what they want knowss where they are going stable is secure with themselves has a job or retired great sense of humor has hobbies enjoys life is outgoing
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