How did everyone meet their better half?

stephfromMIT · 08-14-2012, 10:07 PM

Amanda and I meet Freshman year of High School, Fall sport picture day: I played football (not soccer, American football), She ran cross-country. We went on our 1st date Thanksgiving weekend, been a couple ever since.

girl_dee · 08-14-2012, 10:13 PM

great thread! You can check out the response of lots of folks...

http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...ead.php?t=1937

LaneyDoll · 08-14-2012, 11:25 PM

I met Riley b/c of a mutual friend. We started off slowly, as friends but we had a lot of fun moments together.

When we started emailing, I warned him that I had "that kind of phone voice" and he joked that "no one has that voice." Eventually, we talked on the phone and he learned exactly what I meant.

When we met in real life, he told me nicely "you are not a strict enough top for me." He did not want me to try to pursue him when he was still healing from past hurt; actually I was not pursuing him b/c I identified as a bottom at the time. Eventually, I became his dominant and we both found the balance perfect for us.

When we were still friends, he warned me "do not fall for me, everyone does and they get hurt." Eventually, he told me that he loved me and I refused to say it in return

What we have is based in friendship and I could not ask for a better foundation.

Mrs Arcstriker · 08-14-2012, 11:33 PM

Total internet hookup...The day I heard his voice for the first time was also the first day that I met him...I was hooked from the second he got out of his truck...

JDeere · 06-15-2016, 10:16 PM

A dating website. The one that has fish in the title LOL

flapdoodle · 06-15-2016, 10:27 PM

over 20 years ago i saw a butch at Julies in NYC, I could not get her out of my mind. I dated many through the years "hoping" it was her..

8 years ago, I met the butch I married, online. While looking at her 35th birthday album, I saw the butch from 20 years ago. I didn't quite know what to do, we were just dating then, but, there was the very butch I had been searching for, for 20 years....

"who is this", I asked.
"that's me before my hair became salt and pepper"

what are the chances? I had a brief encounter in NYC one night at a bar, I ended up marrying the very same person.

I am truly blessed

08-14-2012, 10:07 PM	#1
stephfromMIT Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Troll Preferred Pronoun?: she her Relationship Status: engaged to my fiancee Amanda Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: cambridge MA Posts: 230 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 703 Thanked 408 Times in 143 Posts Rep Power: 0	How did everyone meet their better half? Amanda and I meet Freshman year of High School, Fall sport picture day: I played football (not soccer, American football), She ran cross-country. We went on our 1st date Thanksgiving weekend, been a couple ever since.

08-14-2012, 11:25 PM	#3
LaneyDoll Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Girly girl femme Preferred Pronoun?: She; Ma'am; Miss ;) Relationship Status: Pitbull protected. Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Birmingham, AL Posts: 2,204 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,892 Thanked 7,686 Times in 1,608 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I met Riley b/c of a mutual friend. We started off slowly, as friends but we had a lot of fun moments together. When we started emailing, I warned him that I had "that kind of phone voice" and he joked that "no one has that voice." Eventually, we talked on the phone and he learned exactly what I meant. When we met in real life, he told me nicely "you are not a strict enough top for me." He did not want me to try to pursue him when he was still healing from past hurt; actually I was not pursuing him b/c I identified as a bottom at the time. Eventually, I became his dominant and we both found the balance perfect for us. When we were still friends, he warned me "do not fall for me, everyone does and they get hurt." Eventually, he told me that he loved me and I refused to say it in return What we have is based in friendship and I could not ask for a better foundation. __________________ There are beauties who stop traffic and then there are beauties who grow obsessively in the hearts of the susceptible.

06-15-2016, 10:27 PM	#6
flapdoodle Junior Member How Do You Identify?: I'm the Mrs. Preferred Pronoun?: reflexive Relationship Status: Married in 2013 Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: sing it Frankie baby Posts: 81 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8 Thanked 245 Times in 59 Posts Rep Power: 1073756	we over 20 years ago i saw a butch at Julies in NYC, I could not get her out of my mind. I dated many through the years "hoping" it was her.. 8 years ago, I met the butch I married, online. While looking at her 35th birthday album, I saw the butch from 20 years ago. I didn't quite know what to do, we were just dating then, but, there was the very butch I had been searching for, for 20 years.... "who is this", I asked. "that's me before my hair became salt and pepper" what are the chances? I had a brief encounter in NYC one night at a bar, I ended up marrying the very same person. I am truly blessed

08-14-2012, 10:13 PM	#2
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08-14-2012, 11:33 PM	#4
Mrs Arcstriker Timed Out How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: her, she...female ones... Relationship Status: married to Arcstriker Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: CT Posts: 143 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 37 Thanked 407 Times in 100 Posts Rep Power: 0	Total internet hookup...The day I heard his voice for the first time was also the first day that I met him...I was hooked from the second he got out of his truck...

06-15-2016, 10:16 PM	#5
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