OFOS.. a space for butch-femme dykes

Jess · 05-19-2010, 11:38 PM

Within our community, everyone gets a space to feel as "safe" as possible to meet with like minds in their own sense of identity.

I had noticed the lack of this space for butches and femmes who still go by the Old School definition of ( primarily) feminine and (primarily) masculine identified lesbians/ dykes within these pages.

Since there are no resources for this particular subgroup listed here, I thought perhaps it might be helpful for those of us who identify this way to have a place to chat or list resources or just mingle.

Please note: This is not to negate other groups within this subculture of a subculture, it is simply to allow for a different one. If in fighting starts, I will request this thread be closed.

That said... welcome aboard!

apretty · 05-19-2010, 11:43 PM

http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...31&postcount=1

betenoire · 05-19-2010, 11:54 PM

well I know you deleted your post quick like a bunny so nobody could see you being a jerk, but some people saw you and I was one of those people.

since you have apretty on ignore and didn't see her post, I will enlighten you. she was considerately pointing out to you that a thread for "OFOS" already exists.

the thread is located here: http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...31&postcount=1

Jess · 05-19-2010, 11:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by betenoire

well I know you deleted your post quick like a bunny so nobody could see you being a jerk, but some people saw you and I was one of those people.

since you have apretty on ignore and didn't see her post, I will enlighten you. she was considerately pointing out to you that a thread for "OFOS" already exists.

the thread is located here: http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...31&postcount=1

Did it intentionally as I knew I was being stalked by a couple of "jerks" Pay mind to your own behavior And thanks for adding what was said.. usually it is nothing of merit except scathing asshattery, so I ignore it.

Thanks for the proof.

betenoire · 05-20-2010, 12:02 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jess

Did it intentionally as I knew I was being stalked by a couple of "jerks" Pay mind to your own behavior And thanks for adding what was said.. usually it is nothing of merit except scathing asshattery, so I ignore it.

Thanks for the proof.

Don't go blaming apretty because you didn't bother to check to see if you were creating a duplicate thread.

What proof are you talking about, exactly?

And "stalked" by a couple of jerks? Really? My my my but we -are- self-important!

apretty is my friend. I love her to bite-sized little bits. So when someone is being a jerk to her - I'm gonna go ahead and pay mind to that.

Jess · 05-20-2010, 12:06 AM

I looked through the threads and was unable to find an OFOS thread. My apologies to Jet, however, even the link so kindly and without malice that was provided did not link me to the forum it falls under.

It doesn't allow me access, perhaps a flaw in the system.

I will request this thread be closed since there already is one and will request that that particular thread become a group of interest. Hate that it got lost.

Thanks for playin.

apretty · 05-20-2010, 12:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jess

Did it intentionally as I knew I was being stalked by a couple of "jerks" Pay mind to your own behavior And thanks for adding what was said.. usually it is nothing of merit except scathing asshattery, so I ignore it.

Thanks for the proof.

hey big eraser, proof is in the pudding!

betenoire · 05-20-2010, 12:10 AM

it's located here: http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...splay.php?f=15

7th thread down, actually.

apretty · 05-19-2010, 11:55 PM

maybe someone else can tell you that you've created a duplicate thread. you're welcome.

05-19-2010, 11:38 PM	#1
Jess Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: decidedly indifferent Preferred Pronoun?: other Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Patrick Springs, VA Posts: 2,812 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,247 Thanked 5,700 Times in 1,682 Posts Rep Power: 0	OFOS.. a space for butch-femme dykes Within our community, everyone gets a space to feel as "safe" as possible to meet with like minds in their own sense of identity. I had noticed the lack of this space for butches and femmes who still go by the Old School definition of ( primarily) feminine and (primarily) masculine identified lesbians/ dykes within these pages. Since there are no resources for this particular subgroup listed here, I thought perhaps it might be helpful for those of us who identify this way to have a place to chat or list resources or just mingle. Please note: This is not to negate other groups within this subculture of a subculture, it is simply to allow for a different one. If in fighting starts, I will request this thread be closed. That said... welcome aboard!

05-19-2010, 11:54 PM	#3
betenoire Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Satan in a Sunday Hat Preferred Pronoun?: Maow Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: The Chemical Valley Posts: 4,086 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,312 Thanked 8,738 Times in 2,565 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	well I know you deleted your post quick like a bunny so nobody could see you being a jerk, but some people saw you and I was one of those people. since you have apretty on ignore and didn't see her post, I will enlighten you. she was considerately pointing out to you that a thread for "OFOS" already exists. the thread is located here: http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...31&postcount=1 __________________ bête noire \bet-NWAHR\, noun: One that is particularly disliked or that is to be avoided.

05-20-2010, 12:10 AM	#8
betenoire Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Satan in a Sunday Hat Preferred Pronoun?: Maow Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: The Chemical Valley Posts: 4,086 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,312 Thanked 8,738 Times in 2,565 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	it's located here: http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...splay.php?f=15 7th thread down, actually. __________________ bête noire \bet-NWAHR\, noun: One that is particularly disliked or that is to be avoided.

05-19-2010, 11:43 PM	#2
apretty Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: sea shell Relationship Status: married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: san diego Posts: 1,687 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,927 Thanked 4,374 Times in 1,012 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...31&postcount=1

05-20-2010, 12:06 AM	#6
Jess Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: decidedly indifferent Preferred Pronoun?: other Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Patrick Springs, VA Posts: 2,812 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,247 Thanked 5,700 Times in 1,682 Posts Rep Power: 0	I looked through the threads and was unable to find an OFOS thread. My apologies to Jet, however, even the link so kindly and without malice that was provided did not link me to the forum it falls under. It doesn't allow me access, perhaps a flaw in the system. I will request this thread be closed since there already is one and will request that that particular thread become a group of interest. Hate that it got lost. Thanks for playin.

05-19-2010, 11:55 PM	#9
apretty Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: sea shell Relationship Status: married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: san diego Posts: 1,687 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,927 Thanked 4,374 Times in 1,012 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	maybe someone else can tell you that you've created a duplicate thread. you're welcome.