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11-12-2010, 08:26 PM
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Junior Member
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She, princess, babygrrl ;) Relationship Status:
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LadyAlchemy here...
Hi all,
I am new to this site and hoping to make some friends here. I am an older BBW femme, approaching the big five-O...used to be very high maintenance but as I have aged, my need for comfort has crept in. I still like to dress up in full battle gear and face paint but I now see it as dressing up instead of just dressing. I'd rather be working in my garden, playing with the kids, studying herbalism and alchemy or working on a home improvement project than sitting at the make up counters in Macy's. One of the reasons for this change may be because I am the survivor of a hate crime. It was a number of years ago and I have gone through a lot of processing, values clarification, and healing finally realizing that LIVING WELL is not just the best "revenge", it is the only true revenge. I tend to be a very spiritual person and have been studying Wiccan traditions for almost 30 years now. I am just coming out of an almost 10 year relationship. Nothing particularly bad happened, we just realized we were better friends at this point than lovers. See, I really am rather femme and she doesn't identify as butch at all at this point. Anyway...I hope to meet some new friends here! Blessings, LadyAlchemy |
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11-12-2010, 08:33 PM
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Welcome to the Planet, Lady Alchemy.
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11-12-2010, 08:51 PM
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11-12-2010, 11:08 PM
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Hello and Welcome! Make yourself comfy!! It's a great place!
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11-12-2010, 11:11 PM
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11-12-2010, 11:11 PM
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What a great intro--welcome!
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11-13-2010, 01:47 PM
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Hello and Welcome
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11-13-2010, 06:53 PM
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Hi there BigButchMistie and SnackTime!
Thanks for the welcome! I see some of you all know how to post pictures here. How does one do that? Is it a special privilege? I'd like to post my own avatar but can't figure it out. LOL, 
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11-13-2010, 06:56 PM
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11-13-2010, 07:06 PM
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11-16-2010, 04:14 PM
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