I am THANKFUL for...

s0litude · 03-22-2013, 12:45 PM

With all of the "bad stuff" that we all face day in and day out, it's easy to lose track of all of the good things in our lives. I was told once that if we take a moment to stop and think of at least three good things that we can be thankful for on a daily basis, our moods will generally improve. For me, that starts today.

So here's what I have to offer, and I hope others will join me on this by listing their own-- and listing them regularly so we can all share in the smiles.

Try to think of at least three-- more if you're able.

I am thankful for:

Bold, fiesty femmes who tell you just how it is because butches/bois/ and transmen can be dense sometimes-- c'mon, ya know it's true!
Great coffee
The laughter of loved ones
Friends who know and see your flaws-- and love you despite them
A nation that provides resources for those who are temporarily set back or permanently disabled so no one has to suffer if they know where to look
Coconut-scented hair care products; the smell of vanilla and lavender and citrus; fresh cut grass;freshly-baked bread; the smell of a baby's skin as well as puppy and kitten breath
The ability to comprehend new ideas and thoughts and find new ways of viewing things, new perceptions
My dad-- my hero
Pajamas fresh out of the dryer, all warm and snuggly
Sarcasm-- because I don't think I'd survive this world without it
Medusa, Linus, and others who make this site-- and the possibility for making new friends and alliances-- possible

Nicholas

TheMerryFairy · 03-22-2013, 12:50 PM

Freedom, love and coffee!

I have a lot to be thankful for including the determination I have been given to tough it out and chase after my dreams, wonderful friends, an accepting community and travel experiences that have influenced me on so many levels.

StrongButch · 04-05-2013, 02:50 PM

I made the right decision!

lilapache · 04-05-2013, 03:33 PM

all the good people i have in my life

and VERY thankful my oldest is moving back closer to me...

RNguy · 04-05-2013, 03:44 PM

My life , my wife , my jobs

TheMerryFairy · 04-05-2013, 04:07 PM

Canvas tote shopping bags!

Queenie · 04-06-2013, 09:25 AM

The life I have with my husband.

lilapache · 04-06-2013, 10:12 AM

repairing my laptop myself
my kids when i get stressed out
waking up to enjoy a beautiful day

little_ms_sunshyne · 04-06-2013, 10:17 AM

The good people of Nutella lol

Kenna · 06-18-2015, 01:47 PM

Ceiling fans...
A refreshing cool bath...
Oversized fluffy towels...
A big picture window overlooking the fields as I lounge half naked, after my bath, with the breeze from the fan drying my skin...
A well stocked pantry and dinner in the crock...
Fresh veggies from the most beautiful garden you've ever seen...
Homemade smoothies...

Making a phone call about a mistake with a hospital bill and being told "you should have NEVER been billed for that, I will take care of it immediately".

Venus007 · 06-19-2015, 03:53 AM

My honey lamb is letting me use her car and she is driving her truck until I can scrape enough together for a down payment on an affordable reliable vehicle.
For most of both of our lives this would have been impossible but now it isn't. It took a lot of hard work to get here and for that improvement, the car and my honey lamb I am very grateful

Bèsame* · 06-19-2015, 07:49 AM

Thankful, for the loving people and friends in my life who listen. We all need them, time to time.

P.s.....I'm a great listener too

Orema · 06-28-2015, 06:29 AM

Acts of forgiveness and acts of grace at unexpected times.

03-22-2013, 12:45 PM	#1
s0litude Member How Do You Identify?: Transman - HRT / No Surgery Preferred Pronoun?: Male Relationship Status: Single, but enjoying the journey.... Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: North Carolina (NE) Posts: 366 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 525 Thanked 1,210 Times in 310 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	I am THANKFUL for... With all of the "bad stuff" that we all face day in and day out, it's easy to lose track of all of the good things in our lives. I was told once that if we take a moment to stop and think of at least three good things that we can be thankful for on a daily basis, our moods will generally improve. For me, that starts today. So here's what I have to offer, and I hope others will join me on this by listing their own-- and listing them regularly so we can all share in the smiles. Try to think of at least three-- more if you're able. I am thankful for: Bold, fiesty femmes who tell you just how it is because butches/bois/ and transmen can be dense sometimes-- c'mon, ya know it's true! Great coffee The laughter of loved ones Friends who know and see your flaws-- and love you despite them A nation that provides resources for those who are temporarily set back or permanently disabled so no one has to suffer if they know where to look Coconut-scented hair care products; the smell of vanilla and lavender and citrus; fresh cut grass;freshly-baked bread; the smell of a baby's skin as well as puppy and kitten breath The ability to comprehend new ideas and thoughts and find new ways of viewing things, new perceptions My dad-- my hero Pajamas fresh out of the dryer, all warm and snuggly Sarcasm-- because I don't think I'd survive this world without it Medusa, Linus, and others who make this site-- and the possibility for making new friends and alliances-- possible Nicholas __________________ "There never was any heart truly great and generous, that was not also tender and compassionate." Robert Frost

04-05-2013, 02:50 PM	#3
StrongButch Member How Do You Identify?: I see the world thru a lens Preferred Pronoun?: Yes Boss Relationship Status: Chillin out with awesome women Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: San Francisco Posts: 1,376 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,018 Thanked 4,183 Times in 1,180 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Thankful I made the right decision! __________________ Life is like music,so it can be played in many different styles.

04-05-2013, 03:33 PM	#4
lilapache Member How Do You Identify?: DONE Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: forever away Posts: 1,374 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,015 Thanked 3,880 Times in 1,025 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	all the good people i have in my life and VERY thankful my oldest is moving back closer to me... __________________ Don't get mad when a girl cares too much. Worry when they start to not give a fuck.

04-05-2013, 03:44 PM	#5
RNguy Member How Do You Identify?: trans Preferred Pronoun?: He preferredably :) Relationship Status: the pitbull <€ Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Birmingham, Alabama Posts: 1,058 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,473 Thanked 2,266 Times in 510 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	the mrs rnguy My life , my wife , my jobs

04-06-2013, 09:25 AM	#7
Queenie Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Preferred Pronoun?: Her Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: East Finchley Posts: 752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 478 Thanked 1,886 Times in 523 Posts Rep Power: 16307164	I am THANKFUL for... The life I have with my husband.

03-22-2013, 12:50 PM	#2
TheMerryFairy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pansexual/Sapiosexual femmey dyke who likes to crossdress now and then Preferred Pronoun?: She/her OR ze if I'm crossdressing Relationship Status: Floating and walking My path, happy in life. Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: On my Merry Fairy way! , Canada Posts: 3,630 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,727 Thanked 8,694 Times in 2,987 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Freedom, love and coffee! I have a lot to be thankful for including the determination I have been given to tough it out and chase after my dreams, wonderful friends, an accepting community and travel experiences that have influenced me on so many levels.

04-05-2013, 04:07 PM	#6
TheMerryFairy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pansexual/Sapiosexual femmey dyke who likes to crossdress now and then Preferred Pronoun?: She/her OR ze if I'm crossdressing Relationship Status: Floating and walking My path, happy in life. Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: On my Merry Fairy way! , Canada Posts: 3,630 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,727 Thanked 8,694 Times in 2,987 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Canvas tote shopping bags!

04-06-2013, 10:12 AM	#8
lilapache Member How Do You Identify?: DONE Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: forever away Posts: 1,374 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,015 Thanked 3,880 Times in 1,025 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	i'm thankful for repairing my laptop myself my kids when i get stressed out waking up to enjoy a beautiful day __________________ Don't get mad when a girl cares too much. Worry when they start to not give a fuck.

04-06-2013, 10:17 AM	#9
little_ms_sunshyne Senior Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: . Posts: 3,312 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,339 Thanked 12,241 Times in 2,541 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	The good people of Nutella lol

06-18-2015, 01:47 PM	#10
Kenna Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Fiery, Sassy, Tough As Nails, Femme Tomboy Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: I am your favorite hello and hardest goodbye. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NC & CO Posts: 4,806 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,624 Thanked 12,191 Times in 3,779 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Ceiling fans... A refreshing cool bath... Oversized fluffy towels... A big picture window overlooking the fields as I lounge half naked, after my bath, with the breeze from the fan drying my skin... A well stocked pantry and dinner in the crock... Fresh veggies from the most beautiful garden you've ever seen... Homemade smoothies... Making a phone call about a mistake with a hospital bill and being told "you should have NEVER been billed for that, I will take care of it immediately". __________________ **************************** She has been through hell, so believe me when I say, fear her when she looks into a fire and smiles. ~E.Corona~

06-19-2015, 03:53 AM	#11
Venus007 Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Serene Highness ;} Relationship Status: Dreamily contemplating some outrage against conventional morality Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Houston area Posts: 1,362 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,417 Thanked 4,746 Times in 1,139 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	"Spare" Car My honey lamb is letting me use her car and she is driving her truck until I can scrape enough together for a down payment on an affordable reliable vehicle. For most of both of our lives this would have been impossible but now it isn't. It took a lot of hard work to get here and for that improvement, the car and my honey lamb I am very grateful __________________ . "I need no warrant for being, and no word of sanction upon my being. I am the warrant and the sanction. " Ayn Rand, Anthem "So you'll die happily for your sins. You'd rather die in guilt then live in love?" Timothy Leary

06-19-2015, 07:49 AM	#12
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: loved by many Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 15,420 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,168 Thanked 41,017 Times in 10,768 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	Thankful, for the loving people and friends in my life who listen. We all need them, time to time. P.s.....I'm a great listener too __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

06-28-2015, 06:29 AM	#13
Orema Superlative Soul Sister How Do You Identify?: Lesbian stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Moving in a single file and sometimes a sinner. Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: Cottage of Content Posts: 13,683 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 41,474 Thanked 34,733 Times in 8,961 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	Acts of forgiveness and acts of grace at unexpected times.