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|  10-10-2015, 08:24 PM | #861 | 
| Junior Member How Do You Identify?: transmasculine Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2015 Location: Indiana 
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			Thanks TruTexan! I'm sure the link will prove to be very helpful    | 
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|  10-13-2015, 09:44 PM | #862 | 
| Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma 
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			Welcome new members.
		 
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|  10-16-2015, 12:54 PM | #863 | 
| Magically Delicious How Do You Identify?: Gentle Butch Relationship Status: Single and content Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minnesota 
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			I haven't popped in to welcome anyone in a very long time and after reading through posts, there are plenty newbies...so, welcome to all the newbies. I hope you enjoy it here as much as those of us that have been here many years. I'm always up for making new friends. I don't post much, but I read here often and am usually here a couple times a day. 
		 
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|  10-17-2015, 04:03 AM | #864 | 
| Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single, for now. Join Date: Sep 2014 Location: Down in the South, y'all. 
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			Hi Everyone! I am so happy to be here and hope to meet some like minded humans. I recently moved to Arizona and don't low many people here yet. Want to get out eventually and check out the scene. I'm a social butterfly mainly because I love to communicate/learn about others. Hope to find a safe haven here where I can be myself, tender, loving femme that I am!
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|  10-17-2015, 06:13 AM | #865 | |
| Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Preferred Pronoun?: People call me by my nic name. Relationship Status: Not Single, Not Desperate. Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Florida 
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|  10-17-2015, 09:25 AM | #866 | 
| Member How Do You Identify?: Soft butch Preferred Pronoun?: whatever.. Relationship Status: SINGLE Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: Indiana 
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			Welcome Fiery... Have a great weekend
		 
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|  10-17-2015, 11:05 AM | #867 | 
| Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: ... Preferred Pronoun?: ... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ... 
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			Welcome fiery redhead!
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|  10-25-2015, 09:42 PM | #868 | |||
| Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Dude Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him Relationship Status: Taken Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Hidden Valley Ranch 
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 Hello Laura. Welcome to the planet. Sounds like you have a lot going on over there. I wish you much luck in your journey and hope you find a lot of useful information here as well as friends. Quote: 
 Hi crazyCat!!! Welcome to the wonderful world of the butch/femme dance. I remember when I first found it many many many years ago and how exciting it was to realize that hey, there are women out there who like Butches. It was like I had finally found home. Anyway, hope you enjoy yourself here, make plenty of friends, and learn all about the butch/femme dynamic. 
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|  10-26-2015, 09:41 PM | #869 | 
| Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma 
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			Welcome to Fiery! I hope you enjoy the site.
		 
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|  10-26-2015, 11:00 PM | #870 | 
| Senior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian butch Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: in a one horse town in a large state, in the U.S. 
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			HI Fiery ! Welcome to the Planet, hope you enjoy your stay.
		 
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|  10-26-2015, 11:21 PM | #871 | 
| Senior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian butch Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: in a one horse town in a large state, in the U.S. 
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			Welcome to Everyone that's new to the Planet. hope you enjoy your stay.
		 
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|  10-27-2015, 05:21 AM | #872 | 
| Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Any will do Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Oct 2015 Location: Adelaide Australia 
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			Hi all.  Just to say g'day. I've been out and proud since I was 15 and now I'm closer to 50 than 45. Pretty much all of that time I've tended to the butch side of the equation except for a couple of young years where tried and failed miserably at the femme thing. I could be the only member from Adelaide in South Australia but who knows. Hoping that this forum is a bit busier than the b/f forums on Fetlife. (Too full of weirdo bio straight boys) I've always had a huge weakness for butch on butch but these days high femme will get my dominant side to sit up and take notice. Have been reading some of the fiction on this site and whew....... | 
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|  10-27-2015, 11:41 AM | #873 | 
| Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Shy for President Join Date: May 2014 Location: NH 
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			Welcome to the planet. I am not a newbie anymore so I can do this!!!! Welcome!!! 
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|  10-29-2015, 03:36 PM | #874 | 
| Junior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian Join Date: Oct 2015 Location: midwest 
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	Rep Power: 0            |  hi ya *extends paw*     Hello all! I'm new here. Just wanted to find a place to have fun, laugh and enjoy new friends! Used to chat years ago, got away from it, now I'm back and this looks like a great place to be! | 
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|  10-29-2015, 04:13 PM | #875 | 
| Long-time Member How Do You Identify?: WIB - woman identified butch Preferred Pronoun?: Your choice...not really a button for me Relationship Status: ♡ married 1/1/2019♡ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: San Diego 
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|  10-29-2015, 04:22 PM | #876 | 
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|  11-13-2015, 02:30 AM | #877 | 
| Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma 
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|  11-18-2015, 08:30 PM | #878 | 
| Junior Member How Do You Identify?: It's complicated/stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: they/them Relationship Status: godspouse Join Date: Nov 2015 Location: USA 
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			Newbie here, going by Aisha.  I'm kind of non-gendered but I consider myself stone butch.  Have been living as male for a while, but I'm having my doubts as to whether that completely fits.  I prefer not to think about my birth assignment, but for what it's worth I am soon to undergo phalloplasty and I am very much looking forward to it. The biggest question/point of confusion-and-much angst I have is the parts of calling myself stone that don't fit. I am bisexual (which people have said disqualifies me from being stone butch. I don't think it does.) Also, and this is the part I get judged harshly on--I don't get anything out of another person's pleasure. I refuse to be touched or penetrated because *I* don't like it, and I have to be the person who does all the touching/penetrating *because that is what pleases me.* I've been like that for...a while. I think it's intrinsic. Doesn't mean I can't love other people or that I'm inconsiderate to others' feelings, I just am how I am. I've been through a lot of abusive psychiatry where my my gender and sexual preferences were used against me, and dated a lot of rotten eggs in the following attempt to normalize myself, and it's still a thing I tend to lose sleep over, so participating in a community of people who are similar in this regard seems like a good idea for not getting down on myself so much, even if it's listening/reading other people's posts. I'm in this weird "twilight zone" where I look masculine for a woman and slightly feminine for a man, and I like that. Ideally I would look younger and grow my hair out longer so I can rock the greased-back ponytail, ah well, I'm working on it. | 
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|  11-18-2015, 08:59 PM | #879 | 
| Senior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian butch Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: in a one horse town in a large state, in the U.S. 
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			Welcome to the Planet, Aisha.
		 
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|  11-18-2015, 10:49 PM | #880 | 
| Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Transguy Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: single  Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Central West Coast of Florida 
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			Sending a big welcome to all of the new folks! BFP is a great place to be.    
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