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			Light a candle for moonfemme, her butch is having heart surgery today.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			I am your favorite hello and hardest goodbye. Join Date: Nov 2009 
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			 For Blade and family; as they lay Nannie to rest today...  
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			Lit candles and prayers are quite the blessing, thank you 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			The road trip to relocation went well Next up, I'm praying for work asap I'll be hitting the pavement Monday morning to seek it out 
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			 lighting a candle for ..... Blade.... 
		![]() you and your family have my deepest sympathys at this time. ![]() 
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			 I landed at home tonight..... tomorrow have to go see a long time child hood friend... whom is in very bad shape and is in the hospital. 
		she has been suffering from very bad arthritus since her 20's she is 51 now.. her son told me .. she had a heart attack and is in critical care. she needs some prayers, and some white/positive light at this time for she and her family. I love you ((((((((((((((((((Darline))))))))))))))))))))))) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() she and i been friends since we were like 8 yrs old.... heh... i remember how we both seen on TV , watching a western and how 2 guys cut there finger and touched each others bleeding finger to each other, to be blood brothers.well ahh yeah you guessed it.. Darline and I did that.. lol think we were 10?? guess you can say we are blood sisters .lol ![]() ![]() 
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			For many tonight, I light candles 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			![]() ![]() ![]() Diva and Erin Lady D and Damon Blade and Family Sweet and her Mom and family Wolfy Tommi NycBBw and BB Wax and Dolo Lady Pamela and family Nat DommeNC Milana Terrell and family moonfemme and spouse princessbelle and family Darlene My family Snow and Grant Kelle her mom and family ST  
		
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			This evening, I light a candle for our hostess, Spirit Dancer...... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	![]() ....a candle whose light doesn't begin to compare with the light within Her own soul...... You have given to us ~ and continue to give to us a piece of Yourself every day....even when You are ill and hurting..... I admire You so much, Ma'am........ ![]() ![]()  | 
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			SpiritDancer, my longtime compadre, a power bigger than us controls the light and dark. Sending you my lightning. My deepest regards, Rolling Thunder 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			My candle today is for uniting the LGBTIQ communities in our own sub-community as well as the entire US so that we can kick some political butt in 2012!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			This week I light a candle for family.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			For my uncle Joe and for my sister Amber You may be gone, but you are never forgotten. 
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			I light a candle today for a few people: 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			~ Jenn for the loss of two very important people in her life occuring during this month ~ Blade ~ Spirit Dancer ~ Anyone who needs them ~ Two people that I knew who have passed away in the last month and their families during this time of saddness ......... Kelly due to suicide, and Belinda from a massive heart attack  
		
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			Lights a candle for my father-in-law who I just learned passed away last Thursday. May his wife and the rest of the family find peace during this difficult time. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			Candles lit for Wolfy to light the way towards finding a new job this week.  If any of you have seen Wolfy work you know that this is someone who is a very lucky find for any place of employment. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			once in a while someone amazing comes along...and here I am! Join Date: Jan 2010 
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			I want to thank everyone for their thoughts, prayers, candles, light and love shown to me and my family during the past few weeks.  Every time I signed on there were PM's, visitor messages, lit candles and phone calls from so many of you.  I'm thankful and touched by your kindness. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Nannie died peacefully, Thursday morning. We laid her to rest Saturday, wearing a blue dress she made and wore to her 50th wedding Anniversary party. She held 2 Confederate Roses in her hands and we put a picture we all had made at Christmas 3 yrs ago, a 3D pic of Hailey(due 12/7) and a picture of Beau. She hated dogs but she adored Beau. We even included Beau in her obit. Survived by Granddog Beau. Mom's cousin preached the funeral and he compared life to a river. It was a beautiful message. Again thank you all for your caring, kindness and love. Blade 
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			For all of us.. searching, seeking, in the wanting.. to the answer of the question... Why? 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			There is so much Power in light and Prayer 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			you can feel it here and the energy is amazing. I light for us all. Diva~Erin Lady For Strength Damon~ For healing Wolfy~For a job Jen~BB Tommi Milana~Healing Wax~Dolo Healing and Strength Shug and Durrrrrrrr~ Continued healing Blaze~Healing ALK Sweet and Family Blade and Family ST Princessbelle and Family Jake and Ms Matthew JustlovelyJenn and Family Strappie G DomnNC Syr and Sparrow Hoping I didn't miss anyone, but silent prayers for those who need them.  
		
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			Lighting candles for: 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Blade and family ![]() Jet ![]() Sam ![]() softness ![]() WolfyOne ![]() Spirit Dancer ![]() Charles (the homeless man I bought dinner for last night) ![]() My boss ![]() Zahra Baker, her friends and family, and the law enforcement officers working the case ![]() And for everyone else in our BFP family that needs warmth, peace, love, light and/or healing today  
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