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|  01-19-2010, 09:42 AM | #1 | 
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			Okay, so call me the Billy Graham of purging, but I'm an avid believer in the idea that when it comes to possessions, less is best - less things to clean, less things to tidy, less things to fix, less things to have to worry about.  So, I'm starting this thread for the sole purpose of encouraging others to get rid of their 'shit.' Donate it, give it away, sell it, or stick it in the trash, I don't care what it is, if you don't need/use/or even like it, it's time to let it go. I'll start. Today I got rid of... 1. A bunch of non-recyclable carrier bags that were taking up way too much room on my kitchen door. (-> Charity shop/thrift store.) My kitchen door thanks me. 2. Half a dozen chocolate/biscuit containers left over from Christmas. (-> The center my daugher attends for baking class.) So okay, they're good for storing cakes and biscuits - but all of us are trying to lose weight so why waste valuable space by keeping them? (My kitchen cabinets thank me.) 3. A pile of old newspapers/newspaper souvenirs from 1900 through 1940 or so. I bought them at an auction ages ago because they were extremely cheap. Out of all of them, however, there were only two that I really wanted so the rest I'm sending to our antiques/collectables unit. (The floor underneath my desk thanks me.) So, what are you getting rid of today in the hope of de-cluttering your life? (And if you're not getting rid of it but don't need it/use it/like it...why?) Inquisitive minds want to know... Words | 
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|  01-19-2010, 10:08 AM | #2 | 
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			Lets see, today..I'll remember to take the pile of plastic, to the store that has a container to collect them and recycle them.  I could be getting rid of many more thinsg, and have to work at it. Will drop back and maybe share : 0 | 
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|  01-19-2010, 10:28 AM | #3 | 
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			First...a shout out.  Words darlin...thank you for starting this thread! I told myself that this new year would be a year of minimization. Out with the old, the cluttered, the things I don't need. And now I have a thread to keep me on track. YAY! lol 
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|  01-19-2010, 01:01 PM | #4 | |
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|  01-19-2010, 01:04 PM | #5 | 
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			Recycling the pile of old magazines that I have been keeping forever....saving for a recipe, or an article, etc...  Time for them to go!
		 
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|  01-19-2010, 01:24 PM | #6 | 
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			Lots of paperbacks that are cluttering up books shelves. We are going through all our books over the next two weeks to see what to keep and what to get rid of. Some will go in a yard sale this spring (along with a pile of other stuff) and the rest will end up at Goodwill. Neither one of us like to accumulate stuff and we are not hoarders but we still find stuff to get rid of every year or so. This stuff just grows.  Rufus | 
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|  01-19-2010, 01:39 PM | #7 | 
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			Alright, so I'm a total pack rat but let's give this a try. So today I am getting rid of all my old pc magazines. I have been saving them because I just can't bring myself to throw them out so I make excuses. So today their gone and my girlfriend and my shelves thank me I'm sure.
		 
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|  01-19-2010, 01:55 PM | #8 | 
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			I got rid of the dishes/pots & pans in the sink... moving on to going through the stuff I moved from my Mums !
		 
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|  01-19-2010, 02:35 PM | #9 | 
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			busy busy I've been getting rid of so much stuff. Donating, trashing, too much stuff. getting rid of the cookies and sugar I keep bringing back into the house. Every time I go through anything emotional I turn to sugar. I'd like to get rid of what keeps making me do this. Getting rid of heartache I've been carrying too long. Today things change. 
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|  01-19-2010, 02:48 PM | #10 | 
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			I'm Not getting rid of..My backpack full of retired beanie babies..{i have my reasons !!} I am, however, getting rid of the canopy bed {tired of it, I want my full size futon} I'm NOT getting rid of...my ever growing pile of Smithsonian magazines I'll compensate by getting rid of...hmm..3 hefty bags worth of clothes I havent seen or worn in 3 or 4 years....maybe donate to a worthy charity, and yes they're clean -squint- Hands off my Books...I will obliterate you if u touch my books, ok, love me love my fuckin books, got the message ??~hypervents grabs a brown paper bag~ I'll probably get rid of all those Limited Edition hershey kisses...[eyes dart left/right] I'll send all the old Time/People/Newsweek/Large Print Readers Digest/Scientific American*after checking* to my Dialysis Unit waiting room..It does get boring there, and some people dont know which channels to pick on tv, they hog the remote. I'm keeping all the teddy bears given to me by at least 4 Ex's....dont ask me why they give me teddy bears ~grumble~    
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|  01-19-2010, 02:56 PM | #11 | |
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 I used to hang on to magazines for the sake of one or two articles, so what I did was to cut out the articles I wanted to keep, file them, (individual nylon pockets in an A4 folder - makes them easy to find), then either use what was left for 'padding' for my eBay items or else stick it all in the recycle bin. So okay, these were 'women's magazines', most of which were full of advertising anyway, but it worked really well, especially as I no longer had to go through entire magazines looking for a particular article and instead, could simply look it up in my folder (my patience thanks me). Anyway, well done on getting rid of those mags.   | |
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|  01-19-2010, 02:58 PM | #12 | 
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			oh right... Getting rid of a bunch of Dishes, cups and silverware, time for new ones.... 
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|  01-19-2010, 03:08 PM | #14 | |
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 Repeat after me. ''If I haven't worn it in a year, I do. not. need. it.'' 3 or 4 years. *Shaking head.* LOL... | |
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|  01-19-2010, 05:28 PM | #17 | 
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			Today I am proud to report that I got rid of an old toilet that I have been keeping in my garage for six years. I am also proud to report that I ended up using it for exactly what I kept it for - to replace a damaged toilet in my rental home. Oh sorry ... that kind of supports keeping it for as long as I did doesn't it? Well, I am actually not much of a pack rat. I was married to a pack rat for twenty-five years, though. Since his death, it is a lot harder to get rid of stuff he hoarded than it would have been while he was alive. Now it has become kind of dear to me, so I rationalize keeping it. I have made a lot of progress though. Last fall I took two whole van loads to Goodwill. They "won" the donations because they have a drive-through delivery system and they actually unload all the stuff out of the car for you. Yah Goodwill!!! Words this is a great thread, and I hope I will have lots of things to come and brag about giving away. Smooches, Keri | 
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			Being a big old OCD sufferer of the non-hoarding variety I am constantly seeking symmetry and order.  It is hard with a 7 year old though.  There is clutter everywhere and some days I can't take it.  I tend to get a bit too rowdy with the purging. The less stuff I have the lighter and more free I feel. I have to be careful though because sometimes I can purge too much. Great thread!!! | 
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