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			Hi everyone. I am a femme from northern california and I am hoping to make some great friends here. I find it so empowering to find a group of butches and femmes that understand the dynamic and do not question whether I am truly gay simply because I look very feminine. I am looking forward to getting to know everyone, I am already having so much fun looking through the forums.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Welcome to the insanity...the good kind...lots of really cool folks and a great variety of backgrounds it just makes for a really stellar place. Don't be afraid to ask questions and take chances folks will throw you a rope if your heading out to sea!  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			From one femme to another: welcome!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Howdy and welcome to the planet!  Have a great time!!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			I would greatly encourage you to check out the shoe thread  
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			hi there Cali! Welcome to a spectacular place with so much interesting info, threads, and peeps!!!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Hello and welcome to the Planet - sit on down and enjoy the greatest space on the internet.    
		
		
		
		
		
		
			 
		
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			Hello hello!! Enjoy your time here and well... welcome to the Planet!!  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			Hi Cali!  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Welcome. There are a lot of nice people here and many interesting threads. I have lived in Northern CA for 13 years and there is a nice SF Bay Area local BF group there that is very active if you are interested. They have some really fun events. What region are you in? 
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			Welcome to the Planet! I hope you have lots of fun here, and maybe you'll even meet that special person who makes your heart skip a beat...  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			Welcome to the jungle!! Enjoy!!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Welcome! Happy reading!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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	   Welcome to BFP.
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			Welcome home! I felt the same way when I found this community. Where are you in Northern California? We are here too. Enjoy!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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