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			What are your plans?  What's on the menu?? 
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			We plan to run out of town, run away from everything and everyone...away from it all and remain in hiding until Cyber Monday blows over.... lolol
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Awesome vegan restaurant with my boo and a mutual friend of ours.  Gonna be hella relaxing.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Since my family is all over the place, I'll be having a quiet day coloring and cooking.  I am considering a Cornish hen, mashed potatoes, something healthy and green, jellied cranberry sauce and pie.  I want pie this year.  Not pumpkin, though.  Maybe apple or cherry.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
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			It depends on the weather and work schedules (my mom and youngest brother).  We tentatively plan to rendezvous in a central location and spend it with my eldest son, if possible. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			This will be the last time having my sister near for Thanksgiving, so we are having it here. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Turkey Ham Dressing Mashed potatoes and gravy Fresh green beans Vegetable salad Olive and pickle tray Sweet potato casserole Hot rolls Pumpkin pie and Carmel cheesecake Coffee Soda Beer and wine This year there will only be 10 of us... There used to be 30-40, with much laughter and love. I miss them.  | 
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			I've been invited to a friend's and will enjoy the day watching holiday films and eating a good meal with her family. She enjoys nice wines, so I'll take her a bottle of something she likes. I'm looking forward to it.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			We keep it low key here.  Dinner with small immediate family- my parents, my brother and his family.  No idea what we'll be having. We usually potluck and I'm usually in charge of veggies so I'll make some sort of fall veggie dishes.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I am so excited... my best friend is coming to stay for a few days and there will be fun, food, booze, and general lazing about and goofing around. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			As to the menu I haven't thought beyond the wine and the turkey 
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			Not sure, would like to ho to Charleston, but dont see that happening 
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Not sure what we are going to do..i know i'm cooking dinner lol..i tried to suggest to spouse that maybe he could cook Sunday dinner since he has done no cooking since we married (his excuse is I don't like his cooking, NOT!)  So I have a bet with him that if Hillary wins he cooks once a week..lol..i can't believe he actually fell for that!!.. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Thanksgiving menu is still being developed but it's just comfort food loaded to the max! I will post it once I have an idea..The spouse is definitely in charge of wine and pop..and maybe a special surprise(to me) dessert (we'll see). 
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			Turkey day Eating, watching football, 1/2 time turkey sandwiches, and leftovers, snacking,  napping, watching football, watching the kitchen getting cleaned up  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			~ baking, and eating my yearly turkey dinner w/my family ~playing games after ~ taking the phone off the hook. lol 
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			No specific plans as yet.  Prior years have been sealing up the house with us in it, watching movies, and pretending the rest of the world doesn't exist until some time after the first of the year (except for me going to work).  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Always good food at my house. My honey is a fantastic cook. 
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			I'm thinking roasted quail, a couple of Paleo sides, and baked coconut custard.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			I will be working, so I can have Christmas weekend off. I will pick up some desserts to bring in with me.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I'll be having Thanksgiving with my aunt and uncle, cousins, sister, parents, and hopefully my gf. They usually make an effort to have some vegetarian items.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
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			This year is going to be something totally new to me......will post after Thanksgiving though. It WILL be an incredibly wonderful time with some really kind, loving folks...I can hardly wait!! to be amidst this beautiful family... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I am making a two week road trip out of it. First a three day drive from Florida to Traverse City, Michigan. Brrrr. Then back down to Ann Arbor for a couple of days. Then over to central Illinois and then town to Texas for the actual holiday. Finally a thirteen hour trip back to Florida.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I could have made a couple more stops in Ohio and Kentucky, but I was afraid the trip would just about kill me. As it is I'll get back just in time to move from one house to another so renters can move into the one I am staying in now and then take off for two weeks to California for Christmas. This is so not like me. And I am not healthy. But I think it will be a good thing. I am looking forward to it. I need a change. Edited to add: Re food, I have no idea. I am a guest. I will probably provide some wine and beer. Good beer.  
		
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