Femmes: what makes you feel sexy?

[homoe]

Originally Posted by legally_b10nde

Trying on a new lingerie set with matching high heels on front of a full size mirror.

Who wouldn't find that sexy

[Gemme]

Originally Posted by homoe

Who wouldn't find that sexy

Femmes that don't like or can't wear high heels or don't like or don't want to wear lingerie, for example.



Femmes are very individual.

For example, I feel my sexiest when I'm strong and I'm at my strongest when I'm getting a good workout and using my body with intent. Can't wear heels and lingerie in the gym and get a good workout in, plus it is against most gym decency or proper dress clauses.

[femmeandstrong]

When the combination of brains...love for nature..lazy Sunday mornings...appreciation for when I am all femmed up...
And love of good food .... photography....
Meets its match ....♡

[grenade]

Good eyebrow days make me feel sexy.

[Gemme]

Originally Posted by grenade

Good eyebrow days make me feel sexy.

People underestimate a good eyebrow day.

[DapperButch]

Originally Posted by Gemme

People underestimate a good eyebrow day.

I actually have great respect for well done eyebrows on women. It's true. I notice them and comment on them. I think well done eyebrows are very important to the overall "look" to a woman's face. I think it is more common to see poorly done eyebrows than well shaped eyebrows. Of course, when I say shape I mean more than just the arch. But, I assume everyone knows this.

Anyway, it seems to me you have to have a good "eye" for it. Not every woman/man can do it well.

[TL1]

I feel singled out. I got told butches aren't supposed to post here and yet butches are posting here and the person who told me isn't saying anything. So wtf lol



Ok as you were........

[Gemme]

Originally Posted by DapperButch

I actually have great respect for well done eyebrows on women. It's true. I notice them and comment on them. I think well done eyebrows are very important to the overall "look" to a woman's face. I think it is more common to see poorly done eyebrows than well shaped eyebrows. Of course, when I say shape I mean more than just the arch. But, I assume everyone knows this.

Anyway, it seems to me you have to have a good "eye" for it. Not every woman/man can do it well.

Very nice. Thank you.

Now get out.

Said with love and affection, of course.

Originally Posted by TL1

I feel singled out. I got told butches aren't supposed to post here and yet butches are posting here and the person who told me isn't saying anything. So wtf lol



Ok as you were........

You were not singled out. If you go back through the thread from the beginning, you would see that femmes have been pretty strict about this being a femme zone only and not being oogled or sexualized by butches or transguys that come in here.

Personally, I'm more receptive to messages like Dapper just posted versus posts that lean more towards viewing femmes in objectifying ways.

Also, not all messages are posted on the boards. Some are private.

[Bèsame*]

All things lacy....

[Bubala]

the way Hy looks at me... that subtle change in Hys voice...

[easygoingfemme]

Originally Posted by Gemme

Femmes that don't like or can't wear high heels or don't like or don't want to wear lingerie, for example.



Femmes are very individual.

Exactly. I'm an idiot in high heels and I don't have a body type that works with a lot of lingerie. I don't really like it anyway.

I'm at my best when I'm healthy, exercising, happy, and being valued.
Also new on my list of things is being on the back of my butches bike when she reaches back to hold my leg while we're cruising along. Yup. That's good stuff there.

[DapperButch]

I apologize to Gemme and the other femmes. I strongly support femme only space.

[introverted1]

Are butches really not allowed to post here? I welcome their input!

As an aside, I have seen femme posts in the Butch zone...

[introverted1]

I feel completely sexy when I put on lacy underthings...there's nothing like it!

[A. Spectre]

Are butches really not allowed to post here? I welcome their input!


My femme is so so sexy when she gets out her Makita and drives a screw, we give each other that look. A femme with power tools is extremely hot. When she talks about architecture, art, science, her Facebook friends. It's all hot.

[Gemme]

Originally Posted by introverted1

Are butches really not allowed to post here? I welcome their input!

As an aside, I have seen femme posts in the Butch zone...

It's in the femme zone and sometimes there are topics that femmes, in general, don't feel the need to get outside input for. Also, sometimes, people act like dipshits and post misogynistic or sexist crap or just come to ogle (although that's usually mostly in the lingerie thread), which we get enough of in the real world. It would take a bit of research but this has been rehashed a few times in some femme zone threads throughout the years.

Courteous posts usually aren't problematic but what kind of input do you need from a butch about what a femme thinks makes her feel sexy? Just curious because it's about the femme and for the femme and really doesn't have anything to do with butches or transguys unless you are thinking about the femmes that need a butch's look or touch to give them that sexy feeling. Is that what you are referring to? Those that seek outside appreciation or validation?

[deeds]

curtsy..lol

I won't come in here anymore.. I appreciate, understand and respect a Femme who keeps sacred and private places with themselves..tho I wanna know what turns her on so I can be all that and more for her in private places...

[candy_coated_bitch]

Painted nails!

[introverted1]

Originally Posted by Gemme

It's in the femme zone and sometimes there are topics that femmes, in general, don't feel the need to get outside input for. Also, sometimes, people act like dipshits and post misogynistic or sexist crap or just come to ogle (although that's usually mostly in the lingerie thread), which we get enough of in the real world. It would take a bit of research but this has been rehashed a few times in some femme zone threads throughout the years.

Courteous posts usually aren't problematic but what kind of input do you need from a butch about what a femme thinks makes her feel sexy? Just curious because it's about the femme and for the femme and really doesn't have anything to do with butches or transguys unless you are thinking about the femmes that need a butch's look or touch to give them that sexy feeling. Is that what you are referring to? Those that seek outside appreciation or validation?

Duly noted, Gemme...perhaps the butches will give me permission to post an all inclusive thread in their section.

Any butches who are interested in this, please give me a yea or a nay. And of course, I would expect respectful, yet HONEST opinions.

[introverted1]

Originally Posted by deeds

curtsy..lol

I won't come in here anymore.. I appreciate, understand and respect a Femme who keeps sacred and private places with themselves..tho I wanna know what turns her on so I can be all that and more for her in private places...

It was just this sort of honest communication I was looking for, deeds.