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	I will be turning 35 in Januay and so far my 30's has been the most fun age of my life. It just keeps getting better  
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			Welcome Kassy and Scarlot!!! 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Ugh I am gonna be turning 33 in May, I am kinda not looking forward to turning another year older by any means. I am a BIG kid and I don't wanna grow up by any means but my age is forcing me to start acting like an adult *Hums the Toy's R Us theme* *h *  | 
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			YAY for big kids!!!!   
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Hmmm maybe when I get about 40 I may act like an evens BIGGER kid *snickers*
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I liked it when it was on tv, I was younger back then but now that I am the 30 something crowd, I am seeing a bit of that show in everyday life. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Ahahahah AZ, bless your heart you are stuck at the end but still welcome till ya bday 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			So, a couple of years ago it dawns on me that I am not even half way through my life. I think about this everytime I look in the mirror and see a new grey hair or wrinkle. I look forward to each birthday. I will be 36 in may and I am so excited about it. Yay! 30 somethings!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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 lol cute though. i'm not sure how it happened, or when but one day this year I woke up with 5 gray hairs in a patch on the side of my head. i'm not sure i'm ready for that just yet.  | 
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			My thirties have been great.  I'm going to be 38 next month and I feel more settled, more beautiful, and more comfortable in my 30's than ever before. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Since I turned 30 I moved from Chicago, to Boston, to San Francisco and back to Chicago. I bought a home, found love, found that dogs really do save your life (esecially after you had a chance to save theirs). I pushed and fought career battles. I was an ok boss who turned into a great boss. I started a business. Yep. I picked up golf, running and cycling. I'm not great at any of them but really like that I'm doing things where I don't have to be the best; Just the best for me. I have a group of fantastic friends that continues to grow vs change. We are women who get each other, protect each other, laugh together... I bought a scooter. I'm looking forward to 40.  | 
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			Welcome and woot for all these great posts!!!!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I read the title of this thread to be "30's a Crowd"  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			 
		
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			 And you would be correct, Sue!  
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			i just turned 37 in february.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			i have to say, the 30's has been when i've gotten a handle on life. i've learned to forgive, learned to move forward and mostly, take each day as it is, and enjoy it to it's fullest potential whenever possible. yay for 30's! 
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			Hello 33 here. About to be 34 in May.   
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	   Im glad I found this board
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			I like the 30s so far.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			 
		
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			Overall I agree. Some ups and downs but that's life ya know?! I've got a few more years to enjoy them. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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