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			The Remains of the Day - Kazuo Ishiguro 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			& La ciudad de las bestias {The City of Beasts} - Isabel Allende {the First book of a Trilogy} ![]()  
		
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			simone de beauvoir's 'the second sex'. (2010) 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	the new english translation and unabridged! but first i'm just finishing irene vilar's 'impossible motherhood: testimony of an abortion addict' (2009)  | 
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 The film is/was on limited release and they are making an 'merican version.. Brad Pitt is rumored to play Blomkvist.. 
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			this... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	[ame="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0440244714?tag=dvdmaailm"]Amazon.com: Playing for Pizza (9780440244714): John Grisham: Books[/ame] and this... [ame="http://www.amazon.com/Genesis-Builders-Prehistoric-Ancient-Civilizations/dp/0972134700/ref=cm_cr_pr_product_top"]Amazon.com: Genesis 6 Giants Master Builders of Prehistoric and Ancient Civilizations (9780972134705): Stephen Quayle: [/ame]  | 
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			The Spontaneous Fulfillment of Desire by Deepak Chopra.   
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Excellent reading....and great for my soul at this point in my life. 
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			I just finished reading Leslie Feinberg's Drag King Dreams, which had been on my shelf for a while.  At first, I was reluctant--because, having just read Stone Butch Blues (yes, I was "behind" in my reading), I wasn't sure if my expectations were realistic.  Anyhow, my first reaction was, "wow, this is poetic."  But, really, I grew to love the characters--and the message; I sincerely recommend this book.   
		
		
		
		
		
		
			 
		
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			Thanks to Ms. Jen, I also read Bob Flanagan's The Pain Journal.  And, I watched the documentary, Sick, based on the latter years of his life as a masochist.  Both were truly eye-opening.  I must say that I'm still (a few months later) awed at how much he challenges assumptions about pain--and, for me (specifically) the engagement (word choice?) between masochism and topping. Yes, I'm still mulling over this one  
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Is it a novel? 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Yup, it's a novel...but, in my opinion, very poetic--both in content and language.  And, that's a characteristic that struck me from the beginning.   
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			So glad to hear this! His work has been so influential to me. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Another good book by Bob Flanagan is Super Masochist. Quote: 
	
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			I've read mixed reviews of Impossible Motherhood.  What did you think? 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Infidel, Ayaan Hirsi Ali  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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 Always interesting to compare the swedish (or european) version of a film with the american. I wonder though does americans ever see the original versions of the remakes? 
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			difficult read (i'm having baby thoughts these days) but overall sad and incredibly worthwhile. - i didn't finish the beauvior and it's due back today--it would have made a great door stop or weapon. (it's only available for 2 weeks' check out) now i'm into this: the fortress of solitude (jonathan lethem) link: [ame="http://www.amazon.com/Fortress-Solitude-Novel-Jonathan-Lethem/dp/0385500696"]Amazon.com: The Fortress of Solitude: A Novel (9780385500692):…[/ame]  | 
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			Little Bees by: Chris Cleave And Healing Sands By: by Nancy N. Rue; Stephen Arterburn 
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 It's sad that Stieg Larsson died before the books were published and such a huge success. Supposedly there's a fourth book nearly completed on his computer (that his heirs are fighting over) and outlines for the sixth and seventh. He had planned ten in all. I selfishly feel disappointed that we won't find out what he intended for Salanger.  | 
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			I recently bought an Amazon Kindle electronic reader and I'm thoroughly enjoying it. One of the features I love the most about it is the fact that I can enlarge the print and not have to don my reading glasses.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			![]() Most recently, I am re-reading Frank McCourt's memoir of "Angela's Ashes" and it's just as good a read now as it was 10 years ago when it was on the best seller list. ~Theo~  ....addicted to his Kindle.  
		
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			I am reading The Emergent Self 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			An Existential-Gestalt Approach by: Peter Philippson For a Gestalt Therapy reading group I am part of. And Traditional Chinese Medicine Formulas and Statagies by: Bensky No light reading over here for awhile......   Pashi
		
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			The Hour I First Believed by Wally Lamb 
		
		
		
		
		
		
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