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 My regret is never having been to NYC so I could of visualized the streets and areas she come across on her 3 miles plus walk on New Years Eve.  | 
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			Chea Villanueva's Bulletproof Butches has been helping me get through quarantine. I love how proudly butch the author is and the frankness with which she writes lesbian desire.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Almost very single character is a butch or femme! It's also cool that she focuses exclusively on the experiences of women of color, particularly Filipina butches and femmes. I feel it definitely fills a void in the B/F literary cannon.  | 
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			Thanks so much for the recommendation, homoe!! I'll check it out.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Ana Castillo's Massacre of the Dreamers is phenomenal. Highly recommend it for anyone interested in Chicana/Xicana feminism.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	I really appreciate that she digs much deeper than European-introduced patriarchal religion as the source of sexism and machismo; she goes back thousands of years to pre-Conquest society. It's a little depressing to know just how long women have been subjugated, especially since there's this myth of tons of matriarchal societies in the pre-Columbian era, but I think it's important to understand.  | 
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			Disloyal: A Memoir: The True Story of the Former Personal Attorney to President Donald J. Trump 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Love In The Time Of Cholera by Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Begins with a series of deaths but is at heart a love story. Watership Down Rabbits on a journey to a new home. We'll see how this goes, as I generally don't want to see/read any violence to animals. Hitchhiker's Guide To The Galaxy Very British sense of humor (the author is British, after all), but I laughed from the first page. 
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			Three books from my library that one might be interested in.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	"Female Masculenity" by Jack Halberstam "Stone Butch Blues" by Leslie Feinberg concerning being lesbian in 50'-60's-70's (I went to Buffalo to see one of her speeches and was very impressed. I met her and we spent time going over her own history) She passed in 2014 after having trans herself . "Boots of Leather, Slippers of Gold", by E.L. Kennedy. concerning the evolution of the lesbian community in Buffalo N.Y. from the 1930's to the 1960's. I am better than half way through "In the Company of Crows and Ravens." I love this book. Concerning the comparison of these two magnificent birds and their intelligence beyond what had been expected before extensive research.  | 
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			I have a full size statue of a crow atop my bookcase in my living room. Have had it for years. I have a number of books on different animal species but crow and ravens are my favorite. Good reading to understand other creatures in our world.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I too found Leslie so interesting and knowledgeable concerning years of experience in the gay community. I only wished she had written more books. I would like to have seen her again although we spent good time and I have several pics of us together. I always thing of how she signed my book.. with memories of Stonewall.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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