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Old 10-14-2010, 07:27 AM   #181
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I'm grateful for:

~Aggravation.....because it teaches me to be more patient.

~Animals....especially my Lucy, Ricky & Fred

~Asparagus.....baked al dente

~Antiques....because I am one.



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Old 10-14-2010, 07:25 PM   #183
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Always - As in the love for my beautiful wife!
All of our fur kids - Monty, Lucie, Pinkie Lee, Daisy and Shadow!
Austin - This is a great city and I love it!
Age - And the wisdom that comes with it.
Apples - McIntosh apples are plentiful right now!
Aquarians - Yep, I am one

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Acknoledgement

Apologies

Acceptance

Absolution

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Apples- roasted on a fire like a marshmellw, carmalized with cinnimon and brown sugar

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A good book waiting
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ananas - pineapple , en francais.. which im eating fresh for breakfast, it's delicious..
animals - 'specially our kitty gibson..♥
anticipation - of good things to come on my journey of 'self'
active - becoming more active for good health, as well as more active volunteering for my community
aggression - yum
amazing - the people in my life ♥
acoustic - music, one of my loves in life, and acoustic is just so raw
atlantic - the coast i live on, its beautiful here.
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-Bass in my music
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I am grateful for Books.

I am grateful for Boxes that hold new things, Boxes to put things to give away in and Boxes to hold mementos until it is time to see them again.

I am grateful for Bois.

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I'm grateful for........

~Boys/Bois

~Books....lots of 'em

~Brains

~Bling

~Berlin

~Barack

~Beautiful babies

~By-myself time

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Bananas a good source of potassium
Books, books and more books
Babies other people's babies
Burnt Umber a favorite color for watercolors
Bantering
Bolonga sandwhiches because they are not good for us add mustard please
Bed a nice soft one please
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brads (a fave in my crafty collection)
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I am grateful for Coffee prepared by my honey and all I have to do is switch it on. Yummy!!

I am grateful for our Computers.

I am grateful for Competent Customer service peoples.

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I'm grateful for.....

~Coffee

~Children

~Cumming

~Chipmunks

~Chipotle-Raspberry chicken (mine)

~Chicory

~Cake

~Candace-Louise

~Choices

~Causes

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Chocolate

Children (especially My sister)

Crafts (love My cross-stitch)

Canada (a great country to live in)

Cindy (one of My best str8 friends)

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Awareness.
Awkward moments.
Animals
Attitudes. good ones.
Ambition.
Altruism. a work in progress

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Balls. in every sense.
Banter
Beliefs.
Being.
Brothers. I have no biological but, have a few bros I wouldn't trade for the world.
Books.

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Children.
Common sense.
Coffee.
Caring.
CPR. I've seen it's effectiveness, now I teach it.
Comedy.
Cats. NOT the Broadway.
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cats
candy
cake
Cara!
catwalk
chords
Christmas
Coneheads
comedy
cities
California
Casablanca
Christina Aguilera
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- children, mine especially.. they've taught me so much!
- Canada, eh?
- candy, love my candy!
- clownin' - cuz it's what i love to do
- chills - the feel good kind
- the Cure, Chevelle & Crossfade, to name a few fave bands..
- conair straightening iron, how would i ever live without it :O lol
- computer, i've met some truly wonderful people over the years..
- crayons - i LOVE to color, :-)
- caring - comes so naturally to me, and part of my job♥
- creativity - much needed for my hobby for web graphics, signatures, PSP..
- collar - to be owned one day..
- some of my fave foods: cucumber sammiches, breakfast cereal & CHEESE (it just makes everything so much better) ...
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