What Do You Miss? - Page 2

Starrynightaw · 06-16-2011, 04:24 PM

That few moments before going to sleep when I was at complete relaxation and felt arms around me. Now it's a million pillows surrounding me like a fort. Still missing something...

wolfbittenpoet · 06-16-2011, 04:28 PM

Having someone to watch sleep all night besides the cat.
Having stripes all over my body under my shirt because they lose control.
Having a surprise 2 am snack watching the stars or old movies.
Knowing someone will worry if I don't call or show up somewhere.

foxyshaman · 06-16-2011, 04:41 PM

My map girl. She could get me anywhere. And her eggs benedict, we would have that on Sunday mornings, laying in bed watching Coronation Street. I hate coronation street now and have not touched eggs bene.

swan · 06-19-2011, 11:19 AM

I miss having someone to go places with. And someone to call and say "hey, I forgot the *blank* for dinner. Can you swing by and grab some on the way over?" I don't know that I miss it enough to have a partner right now though. But sometimes I do miss being part of an us instead of just me.

AtLast · 06-19-2011, 11:30 AM

I miss a trusted mind to make tough decisions with. I miss taking pride in our home together and sharing dreams.

I miss the serenity I found "knowing" we would age together sharing silly songs, fur-kids, good and bad cooking, road trips, making up after disagreeing. Hell, I miss diagreement.

I miss the heat of our passion and knowing we would accept each other's ways of aging with kindness.

I miss feeling whole and knowing the gifts of interdependence.

I know, however, that all that I miss is not worth travel down a path with the wrong person.

little_ms_sunshyne · 06-19-2011, 11:30 AM

I miss THE CITY and everything that comes with it...friends, family, noise, restaurants, and shopping!

swan · 06-19-2011, 11:24 PM

I was getting into the shower tonight and realized that I really miss having someone to brush my hair for me. Maybe that could be a fundraiser at the Reunion. Some nice Butch could raffle themselves off to brush someone's hair for a while.... I'd bid on that.

*Anya* · 06-24-2011, 10:14 AM

Coffee ready when I wake up; warm cup of soup when I am ill; sex whenever and always (although I have learned a lot about my own sexual pleasure than I did when coupled for so long); the strong arms to hold me to give me inner strength when times are hard; when I see a funny movie or laugh at The Big Bang Theory but I am laughing alone-oh gosh getting maudlin here. I do not want to remain single forever but am not desperate or needy. I am comfortable in my skin with myself but want to have someone to share my skin.

*Anya* · 06-24-2011, 10:17 AM

Aww, I can relate! You know femmes would be happy to brush your hair too..

tapu · 06-24-2011, 10:18 AM

small talk about big stuff

ScandalAndy · 06-24-2011, 11:39 AM

being held until i fall asleep

cooking an amazing brunch and having someone to sit outside with me and enjoy it

swan · 06-24-2011, 11:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Anya/Georgia

Aww, I can relate! You know femmes would be happy to brush your hair too..

True! Very true... I'm laughing at myself because the weather's turned HOT and the humidity is rising so I've got mad curls again. I was just thinking to myself (again) "That's it, THIS is the summer I'm going to shave my head!"

I say that every summer around this time of year.

Delish · 06-24-2011, 12:02 PM

I miss................................

basically part of everything listed. Too bad I am NOT willing to compromise!

06-24-2011, 12:57 PM

...waking up with her

...that first mug of tea brought to me in the morning with a smile

...having my chicken peeled and anchovies skinned

luv2luvgirls · 06-24-2011, 12:59 PM

I miss everything about it
I miss laying side by side entwined legs and arms talking and just feeling
I miss the way she would love me with her words and gestures
most of all I miss how happy she would get when I said hi

always2late · 06-24-2011, 01:55 PM

Coming home to a not empty house (well...the house is never REALLY empty thanks to the fur kids...but you know what I mean).

tapu · 06-24-2011, 03:06 PM

Making sure we're not dressed too much alike. Or that our hair doesn't match.

cinderella · 06-24-2011, 03:37 PM

I don't quite know where to post this...but I'm asking a question...how can I start a new thread - I tried, but did not get the proper questions to ask...please let me know what the apprppriate steps are? Thank you so much.

luv2luvgirls · 06-24-2011, 05:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cinderella

I don't quite know where to post this...but I'm asking a question...how can I start a new thread - I tried, but did not get the proper questions to ask...please let me know what the apprppriate steps are? Thank you so much.

Hey Im new but I believe you just click the new thread button on the upper left of the page...like when in a thread it says post reply there

I hope that helps

Hack · 06-25-2011, 07:47 PM

Being necessary to someone other than my boss.

My green sweatshirt.

Walking down the street and feeling her hand slip in to mine.

Popping one eye open while lying in bed just in time to see her walk across my line of sight wearing nothing but a towel after her bath.

06-16-2011, 04:28 PM	#22
wolfbittenpoet Member How Do You Identify?: Typewriter Boy Preferred Pronoun?: He/They Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: FL where cows go mooooo Posts: 535 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 893 Thanked 1,579 Times in 403 Posts Rep Power: 7518427	Having someone to watch sleep all night besides the cat. Having stripes all over my body under my shirt because they lose control. Having a surprise 2 am snack watching the stars or old movies. Knowing someone will worry if I don't call or show up somewhere. __________________ Burn Burn Burn

06-16-2011, 04:41 PM	#23
foxyshaman Member How Do You Identify?: spiritually minded dirt dog Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: canada Posts: 898 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,957 Thanked 2,592 Times in 663 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	My map girl. She could get me anywhere. And her eggs benedict, we would have that on Sunday mornings, laying in bed watching Coronation Street. I hate coronation street now and have not touched eggs bene. __________________ Do not follow where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail. Muriel Strode

06-24-2011, 10:14 AM	#28
Anya Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Lesbian non-stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Committed to being good to myself Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: West Coast Posts: 8,258 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 39,306 Thanked 40,445 Times in 7,285 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	I miss... Coffee ready when I wake up; warm cup of soup when I am ill; sex whenever and always (although I have learned a lot about my own sexual pleasure than I did when coupled for so long); the strong arms to hold me to give me inner strength when times are hard; when I see a funny movie or laugh at The Big Bang Theory but I am laughing alone-oh gosh getting maudlin here. I do not want to remain single forever but am not desperate or needy. I am comfortable in my skin with myself but want to have someone to share my skin.

06-24-2011, 10:18 AM	#30
tapu Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Understated butch. Preferred Pronoun?: I Relationship Status: Party of One Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Maine Posts: 1,654 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,324 Thanked 3,115 Times in 1,103 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	small talk about big stuff __________________ Really? That's not funny to you?

06-24-2011, 11:39 AM	#31
ScandalAndy Member How Do You Identify?: human femme spitfire Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: it's official! Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: east coast USA Posts: 1,167 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,758 Thanked 3,217 Times in 753 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	being held until i fall asleep cooking an amazing brunch and having someone to sit outside with me and enjoy it __________________ The joy of discovery is certainly the liveliest that the mind of man can ever feel. - Claude Bernard (1813-78)

06-16-2011, 04:24 PM	#21
Starrynightaw Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme. Queer. Submissive. Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, Girl, Honey :) Relationship Status: Single! Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Southern Alabama, But I can also be found in surrounding areas. (Travel Alot) Posts: 89 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11 Thanked 168 Times in 55 Posts Rep Power: 745055	That few moments before going to sleep when I was at complete relaxation and felt arms around me. Now it's a million pillows surrounding me like a fort. Still missing something...

06-19-2011, 11:19 AM	#24
swan Member How Do You Identify?: femme Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: I see cactus... all around.... Posts: 225 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 583 Thanked 727 Times in 198 Posts Rep Power: 10751732	I miss having someone to go places with. And someone to call and say "hey, I forgot the blank for dinner. Can you swing by and grab some on the way over?" I don't know that I miss it enough to have a partner right now though. But sometimes I do miss being part of an us instead of just me.

06-19-2011, 11:30 AM	#25
AtLast Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Woman Preferred Pronoun?: HER - SHE Relationship Status: Relating Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: CA & AZ I'm a Snowbird Posts: 5,408 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,826 Thanked 10,827 Times in 3,199 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	I miss a trusted mind to make tough decisions with. I miss taking pride in our home together and sharing dreams. I miss the serenity I found "knowing" we would age together sharing silly songs, fur-kids, good and bad cooking, road trips, making up after disagreeing. Hell, I miss diagreement. I miss the heat of our passion and knowing we would accept each other's ways of aging with kindness. I miss feeling whole and knowing the gifts of interdependence. I know, however, that all that I miss is not worth travel down a path with the wrong person.

06-19-2011, 11:30 AM	#26
little_ms_sunshyne Senior Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: . Posts: 3,312 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,339 Thanked 12,241 Times in 2,541 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	*I miss THE CITY and everything that comes with it...friends, family, noise, restaurants, and shopping!*

06-19-2011, 11:24 PM	#27
swan Member How Do You Identify?: femme Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: I see cactus... all around.... Posts: 225 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 583 Thanked 727 Times in 198 Posts Rep Power: 10751732	I was getting into the shower tonight and realized that I really miss having someone to brush my hair for me. Maybe that could be a fundraiser at the Reunion. Some nice Butch could raffle themselves off to brush someone's hair for a while.... I'd bid on that.

06-24-2011, 10:17 AM	#29
Anya Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Lesbian non-stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Committed to being good to myself Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: West Coast Posts: 8,258 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 39,306 Thanked 40,445 Times in 7,285 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Aww, I can relate! You know femmes would be happy to brush your hair too..

06-24-2011, 12:02 PM	#33
Delish Member How Do You Identify?: Queen of our castle Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: She put a ring on it and the date is set :) Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Missouri...in her arms :) Posts: 1,089 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,279 Thanked 834 Times in 427 Posts Rep Power: 3888561	I miss................................ basically part of everything listed. Too bad I am NOT willing to compromise! __________________

06-24-2011, 12:57 PM	#34
Daktari Guest Tournaments Won: 1 Posts: n/a My Photo Gallery	I miss... ...waking up with her ...that first mug of tea brought to me in the morning with a smile ...having my chicken peeled and anchovies skinned

06-24-2011, 12:59 PM	#35
luv2luvgirls Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Asshole Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Kentucky/Austin/Wherever Posts: 2,310 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,387 Thanked 5,470 Times in 1,827 Posts Rep Power: 0	I miss everything about it I miss laying side by side entwined legs and arms talking and just feeling I miss the way she would love me with her words and gestures most of all I miss how happy she would get when I said hi

06-24-2011, 01:55 PM	#36
always2late Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: m'lady Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NJ Posts: 2,000 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,834 Thanked 6,231 Times in 1,462 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Coming home to a not empty house (well...the house is never REALLY empty thanks to the fur kids...but you know what I mean). __________________ Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing there is a field. I'll meet you there ~ Rumi

06-24-2011, 03:06 PM	#37
tapu Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Understated butch. Preferred Pronoun?: I Relationship Status: Party of One Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Maine Posts: 1,654 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,324 Thanked 3,115 Times in 1,103 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Making sure we're not dressed too much alike. Or that our hair doesn't match. __________________ Really? That's not funny to you?

06-24-2011, 03:37 PM	#38
cinderella Member How Do You Identify?: Pinky's mommy :) Preferred Pronoun?: Su Majestad Relationship Status: Happy with my puppy Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Pocono Mtns., Pa. Posts: 1,238 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4 Thanked 1,501 Times in 638 Posts Rep Power: 14266108	OK, I'm freaking out... I don't quite know where to post this...but I'm asking a question...how can I start a new thread - I tried, but did not get the proper questions to ask...please let me know what the apprppriate steps are? Thank you so much. __________________ Who needs reality when you have Turner Classic Movies!! The is an organ of fire.

06-25-2011, 07:47 PM	#40
Hack Just a guy. How Do You Identify?: Just a guy Preferred Pronoun?: male Relationship Status: Sparkle's consort Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: MA Posts: 1,458 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 807 Thanked 3,775 Times in 958 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Being necessary to someone other than my boss. My green sweatshirt. Walking down the street and feeling her hand slip in to mine. Popping one eye open while lying in bed just in time to see her walk across my line of sight wearing nothing but a towel after her bath.