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			It might be fun for a while but we would be too similar. We would make good friends but not good lovers since constant contact with someone so similar would probably get annoying.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I would definitely date myself. I would love that I was a good, honest, passionate person, intelligent and hilarious at the most appropriate moments. In laws wouldn't be soo bad and I would love my taste in music. Not to mention I am damn good kisser...AND a liberal! Oh yeah. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Eventually though, I would get on my nerves cause I can't cook worth a damn, I leave dishes in the sink, can never make up my mind, often want to stay home, and I would talk my own head off...then when I was in a quiet mood, I would be constantly be asking myself what I was thinking and we all know how irritating that is... On second thought... 
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			i prefer to date people who complement me rather than people who are exactly like me, but i look for similar qualities that i like about myself in other people...for example, joy, gratitude, satisfaction with life, someone who cares about social justice, has a good sense of humor, likes to cuddle, etc.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	  so i guess i'd date myself (or someone who had similar quirks, values, outlook on life, and direction in life). i think i'm pretty fucking spectacular.
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			also, one of my favorite poems ever  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Oh, Good Lord, no!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Hell yeah. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	I'm well (self) employed, I'm creative, I'm hot, I'm smart, I'm funny (once I get to know you), I have a high sex drive, I'm always learning and growing as a person, I value family and community and friends, and I like doing all sorts of fun adventures (like going to IMsL soon, woohoo!). But really it's all about the sex. It's the only reason I'm in this relationship with myself...hehe.  | 
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			Absolutely!! 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			-sense of humor....check -loves KU basketball...check -not a cheater.....check -likes to go out when I do...check -doesn't mind sequin tube top nights -loves to dance....check -loves to spend time with friends...check -employed....check -loves my dogs....check -loves the beach....check -loves to travel.....check ........the possibilities are ENDless! ![]() If I had a femme clone, yeah, I'd be all over her!   
		
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			i HAVE dated myself! i broke up with me but maintained a relationship
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			This was my EXACT thought when I saw the title of this thread... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			well, I also added that I would probably strangle myself in my sleep... While I do thing I am fine company and enjoy myself I may be a TAD high strung and moody at times... just a tad... 
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			Yes I would... well, except when I am grumpy...  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			 
		
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			but you would know why you were grumpy so you could fix it promptly 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I have dated myself but never got past first base. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Oh wait....i take that back 
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 But what if you are grumpy cause you haven't done something to someone in a while, but what you enjoy doing to someone else you DO NOT enjoy being done to you??? huh.. huh? What then? 
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 Grumpy usually means I am tired and I need to take a NAP! So there is always a remedy... 
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			at least it would be real !!!!   lol
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			No, but there's a good reason... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	I always say that if I dated someone who used my curling iron, lipstick, etc. it would end badly. So if I dated myself, all it would take would be me or me seeing my or my lipstick on myself or myself and the resulting breakup would be such a material and temporal conundrum that the consequences could be dastardly. So maybe that's not a good idea.  | 
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			i'm single so I sort of do date myself!   
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	![]() I give myself treats! I take myself to my favorite places! When I'm down I do something special for me! I spend time with me! I try to treat myself nicely! I cook for me! I do the chores for me! I'm taking me on vacation! I try to tell myself nice self about myself! I try to be honest with myself! i think I do date me!  
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