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12-22-2012, 06:20 PM
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My first serious girlfriend I met while on a date with another woman. I left and she ran after me in her cowboy boots, right in front of my date and gave me her number. Needless to say I called.
The one I thought was the love of my life I met on planet out and she lived about an hour for me but we chatted online for several months before meeting. The rest were just ships passing in the night. I met online, at small events or through friends.
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12-22-2012, 06:31 PM
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My first real bf...I met while hiking...and he was hunting ( I was a vegetarian...it was NEVER meant to be!) I got pregnant, we got married. Lasted about 5 years. Better friends now than when we were married....
My first GF... I think I met her either from a yahoo personal or because she made CDs...can't recall...we were off and on for 3 years...I learned a lot. We didn't keep in touch. There was no need. There was some little dating here and there...nothing serious or consuming... Met my kid's favorite ex (lol) on the dash site, we tried, it didn't work. We moved on. We talk on occasion. More smallish relationships. Nothing that lingered... Met the love of my life right here on BFP in chat! I liked how he used words. You can tell a lot about a person just by the words they use...turns out I was right. He's amazing and wonderful and all a girl could ever ask for. World without Mayan end amen <3 
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12-22-2012, 06:49 PM
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WOW let me think not many to list but I will try
met my 1st gf in college she was older in one of my classes ad she chased me till she caught me that lasted till she passed then I spent the next 15 yrs mourning her. I hid in a marriage in name only that benifitted both of us. I met him on a road test for my 1st driving job that marriage lasted till he passed away had a fb for yrs it was matual for both of us. met a pie crust femme on the dash site we r still friends. we broke up cuz i started transisitoning. dated a few others all but 1 i still talk to and still friend with. meet my ex wife on the dash site when she commented on a pic of mine of a fish. lasted almost 4 yrs till i couldnt take the drama and chit any more met the incrediable Ms Cinn right here in chat when I was working a nite job at a hotel while unable to drive for a month. On a dare I drove up a week early to meet her and can now only see a future with her. God help her |
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12-22-2012, 09:26 PM
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24 years
Bible Study Leader in College Through a friend Through the above ex/bar (how was I to know a mutual friend was supposed to set my ex up with her that night when we all went out?) Bar Bar Bar Bar aol.com dating site (pre match.com merger) aol.com dating site (pre match.com merger) dating site...old profile I forgot about and she contacted me work blind date
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12-22-2012, 09:39 PM
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Met her at a natalie merchant concert...taking pictures of natalie merchant...
black and white even...offered to buy pics from her post concert. Got her address... Met her after AA meeting...she asked me in for tea Met her on bf.com |
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12-22-2012, 10:01 PM
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12-22-2012, 10:17 PM
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Interesting list.... I'll play.
1993 - a bar..we had "run" into each other once years before as I was slipping out of her roommates room one morning.. 1995 - my first wife's funeral. ( That sounds bad. We met there but didn't date for a couple of years) 1997 - church 1997 - work 1997 - the bar 1997 - a party '97 was a phase of some kind  I was on the catch and release program but did have a few " special" friends" 1999 - work, recently split up ( as in some of her crap is still here). I was totally blindsided. 2010 - was re aquainted with an old flame. I was married so I behaved completely. Wife left, old flame is heating up albiet long distance and I'm interested to see what happens next. |
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12-22-2012, 10:46 PM
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softball bar bar AA old school newspaper personal ad sex addicts anonymous meeting (joking) AA old bf site |
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12-23-2012, 10:30 AM
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ohhh gotta love the internet for dating. LOL
I've met people on chat sites, b-f sites, at work, through mutual friends at college, and most current here at bfp then in person when I moved close to her. <3 |
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12-23-2012, 10:50 AM
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significant relationships that meant something
-My ex husband and father of my children was a friend of my cousin. He went through a lot to get my number after seeing me at my cousins house. We were together 15 years.
-During my marriage I met a woman in a group I belonged to, we were together almost a year, I was willing to leave my husband for her. She wasn't willing to be the reason. -Met at a Pagan ritual, did the LDR thing for a year before I moved to be with him. I don't regret much in my life as I feel everything is a learning experience, but that was a waste of 4 years I will never get back. He turned into a stalker when I left and then he finally moved to Australia and got married. -Met online, were together 2 years before he died in his sleep. Finally decided it was time to be true to myself. Death will do that. -Met through a mutual friend here on BFP, wasn't the right time for me. We are still friends and I am very grateful for that. -Met here on BFP, she broke my heart. -We are both on the executive for a local lesbian organization. We are both a bit damaged right now and taking it VERY slowly.
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12-23-2012, 10:55 AM
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I met my very first girlfriend in nursing school.
My second girlfriend I met at a local lesbian bar here in OKC. We were together for 3 1/2 years. Everyone since that point has either been from a chat site, B/F site, or dating site.
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12-23-2012, 12:07 PM
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longer terms relationships:
on a softball field and we u-hauled it within 2 months at Seattle pride hys butch sister is my bestie |
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12-23-2012, 12:31 PM
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The order is right, more or less.
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on a bus on the way to a march a dance in NYC a different dance in NYC OA b-f matchmaker b-f matchmaker b-f matchmaker b-f matchmaker a dance in Northampton match.com at her house personal ad in local paper a coffee bar This list includes relationships that mattered to me, for a few different reasons. |
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12-23-2012, 01:02 PM
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I am a human and not a possession 
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I met both of my partners on butch femme sites. The first one didn't work out.
The second partner was by chance when Hy sent me a private message and asked how were the jobs in Florida. I responded and sent my number and we started off as friends and moved in together in January 2012 and have been dating since April 2012...Hy is my one true love! Zimmeh
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12-28-2012, 10:05 AM
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18 yrs old Met her at a friends party, she pulled me into a closet. Accused me of flirting with her boyfriend (who I didn't know) and then kissed me. Realized then and there why kissing boys wasn't working out for me. Lasted: 1 night
24 yrs old Met her on a yahoo group. She was crazy but cute. Learned the lesson about sticking your d!ck in crazy on that one. Lasted: 2 years 28 yrs old Met her at a kinky party. She was with someone else, I was blown away by her smile. Eventually she left the other, and we were together. We were great friends, and should have left it that way. Relationship just didn't work. Lasted: 5 years 33-39 Catch and release program, mostly met them at kink events, or CM. Nothing lasting, but made some amazing friends. 39 yrs old Met my love at a munch for my local dyke leather group. She was wearing boots, and expected me to follow her to the bathroom. I didn't, but I did notice her ass. Been following her into bathrooms ever since (and still noticing her ass) 
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12-28-2012, 10:42 AM
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This is kind of interesting. A memory lane for relationship madness *s
...1996 I was in high school we met at a local YWG (she ended up married and with a baby) ...1998 A friend set us up (we were supposed to just "hook up") ...2002-2008 Softball game ...2009-2011 Roomates.com we were never roomates, but ended up getting together. should've known better
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12-28-2012, 10:57 AM
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aol chat room aol chat room through a friend poetry message boards b.f b.f |
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12-28-2012, 11:02 AM
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I was 15. met him when I was in a marching Girls group, I was friends with his sister.
Met him when I was a waitress in his restaurant, he was the chef Met him in Ireland at a ladies gym, he use to work there Married him, for the wrong reasons and left him for a woman....He was cool with that (believe it or not) Met her on Pink Sofa  and she had old photos of when she was young and made me believe she still looked like her picture....Wrong.. .Met her when she moved into my building, I didn't know at the time that she was a famous performer. Met her through a Mistress Friend....She was a crazy and weird and very unstable Met her when I first came to London......Gaydargirls (yeah I know) lasted 3 years The end 
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12-28-2012, 01:30 PM
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let's go back 20...
i landed on her porch one day...
we met at an all night club... we met at work... we met at a football tryout... we met through football (different one)... we knew each other through mutual football friends (still yet a different one)... met at Apocs's... knew each other from football before (and was dating one of my football exes)... met at a bar... met at a bar (different bar/different girl)... met through mutual friends... (now we are engaged)
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12-28-2012, 02:23 PM
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Interesting....
1995 -- first bf... Met at oldest brothers house 1996 -- met him at church 2001 -- met her at college 2002 -- a random pm sent to me from gay.com 2003 -- gay.com 2007 -- roommate of ex from 2002 and had been friends ever since 2007 -- above and I in LDR, him not wanting to rush it and scare me off... So I kept dating a girl from work. We remained friends after I ended it 2009 -- dash site 2012 -- it began with a pm and a revelation and a realization |
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