The Art of Us

imperfect_cupcake · 01-13-2010, 03:13 PM

relationships...

brings out the best in me AND bring up every single issue on co-dependancy I was unable to work on when single.

I have learned if both people in the relationships put in equal work on shit, call each other up on owning their stuff and work on it, it plumets and mires.

I can disapear in a relationship, so it's very important my partner understands my need for space. Luckily I've some how wound up with a partner who understands me VERY well and will often give me a heads up onto my behaviour before I've even clocked it. She'll suggest me having alone time just before I realise I need it myself, for example.

It's nice to have a *partner* again. Someone I can really take on the world with. I feel I can trust her. More than anyone I've been with in years.

coming up two years. Then the honeymoon period is supposedly over! we'll see

View Poll Results: Does being in a relationship change you?
Relationships bring out the best in me	80	79.21%
I get into a relationship to see all my defects	7	6.93%
I blend in with the curtains when in a relationship	3	2.97%
Feel the weight of the world, must become a god in order to bear it	13	12.87%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 101. You may not vote on this poll

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01-13-2010, 03:13 PM	#5
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,712 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	relationships... brings out the best in me AND bring up every single issue on co-dependancy I was unable to work on when single. I have learned if both people in the relationships put in equal work on shit, call each other up on owning their stuff and work on it, it plumets and mires. I can disapear in a relationship, so it's very important my partner understands my need for space. Luckily I've some how wound up with a partner who understands me VERY well and will often give me a heads up onto my behaviour before I've even clocked it. She'll suggest me having alone time just before I realise I need it myself, for example. It's nice to have a partner again. Someone I can really take on the world with. I feel I can trust her. More than anyone I've been with in years. coming up two years. Then the honeymoon period is supposedly over! we'll see