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Old 03-09-2012, 11:28 AM   #36
1QuirkyKiwi
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BBW. Unique femininity that does not encompass the western paradigm.
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Sexiness is not a number on the scale; sexiness is the confidence she exudes; her eyes, her lips, her smile, her wardrobe selections, the way she moves, and the way she expresses herself intellectually... among numerous other things that are irrelevant to weight.


I'll be honest - I think plenty of people are attracted to BBWs and they are reluctant to admit it. Sure, I would want a BBW to have a stunning face and be well put together, but I would desire the same from a slender or athletic woman. The media projects destructive (and sometimes disgusting) images of oftentimes anorexic women and tells us that is what we should want (to be or to fuck, depending on which side of the equation you are on.)
You’re right! It is so amazing that people, who are attracted to BBWs, feel they have to hide this from friends and family for fear of ridicule and other unpleasant attitudes. Western society hails the skinny, cosmetic surgery enhanced woman as the utopian of beauty. The health complications attached to such procedures are truly frightening!

As important as it is to be healthy whatever weight and size a woman is and a healthy diet is part of this; gentics also play a greater part. My best friend is slender and is Diabetic along with this, has high Blood pressure. She's also slightly younger than I am.

For me being a BBW is a little of this…

Beauty is an essence! It’s life experience; it’s wisdom; it’s the state of one’s heart. It’s the kindness showing through a woman’s eyes and her smile; it’s the playful expression when she’s feeling cheeky; it’s many things……I see far more beauty in an abundance of curves, than I do in a standard model size. The larger form conveys much more in terms of sensuality, voluptuousness, generosity and sexuality.

It’s ironic, as my previous two long term partners have been slender and muscular women. I’ve dated all shapes and sizes, yet, the ones that have been most attracted to me are slender and muscular.

There's more to explore, love and enjoy!
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