what NOT to do in a relationship.......

RadiantYearning · 07-30-2010, 12:24 AM

Don't spend the entirety of the honeymoon phase showing her how sexually compatible the two of you are, only to lay the cease and desist order on the nightstand the evening after you both sign papers on the house.

Never confuse needing someone with neediness. One is endearing, the other is obnoxious.

Don't waste your energy on jealousy, snooping or stalking ... there are so many better uses for that energy.

Never forget to tell her how you feel, don't assume she knows and/or it's obvious in the things you do. She wants to hear it AND you never know what tomorrow will bring.

Don't cheat. End it if you're seriously considering it ... and don't forget, the grass is seldom greener.

Don't forget to mention that you have more diagnoses than the DSM-IV.

07-30-2010, 12:24 AM	#11
RadiantYearning Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Girlie ones ... Relationship Status: Damsel, non-distressed, seeks knight in shining armour! Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Mt. Olympus Posts: 39 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 54 Thanked 146 Times in 27 Posts Rep Power: 1528401	Don't spend the entirety of the honeymoon phase showing her how sexually compatible the two of you are, only to lay the cease and desist order on the nightstand the evening after you both sign papers on the house. Never confuse needing someone with neediness. One is endearing, the other is obnoxious. Don't waste your energy on jealousy, snooping or stalking ... there are so many better uses for that energy. Never forget to tell her how you feel, don't assume she knows and/or it's obvious in the things you do. She wants to hear it AND you never know what tomorrow will bring. Don't cheat. End it if you're seriously considering it ... and don't forget, the grass is seldom greener. Don't forget to mention that you have more diagnoses than the DSM-IV.