What do YOU need to feel loved?

Soft*Silver · 10-28-2010, 12:06 AM

I am working my 12 steps of AA and doing my inventory and you know, I have discovered a whole bunch of stuff about me.

Including how I define love.

as well as how I have settled for what wasnt love

and

how I justified it in my head.

I put down in an earlier post that I need attention to feel loved. Thats correct. I do. Its the number one thing I must have from someone in order to feel loved. It doesnt have to be alot. It doesnt have to be lavish. But it has to be ENOUGH. And if I have to spell out to them what enough is, then I dont feel loved. Period. Its simply not the right relationship for me.

10-28-2010, 12:06 AM	#12
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,594 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,948 Thanked 15,896 Times in 4,064 Posts Rep Power*: 21474858	I am working my 12 steps of AA and doing my inventory and you know, I have discovered a whole bunch of stuff about me. Including how I define love. as well as how I have settled for what wasnt love and how I justified it in my head. I put down in an earlier post that I need attention to feel loved. Thats correct. I do. Its the number one thing I must have from someone in order to feel loved. It doesnt have to be alot. It doesnt have to be lavish. But it has to be ENOUGH. And if I have to spell out to them what enough is, then I dont feel loved. Period. Its simply not the right relationship for me. __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears