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blueeyes226_l · 12-10-2010, 09:59 PM

Hey,The othere post on putting kids first. I feel if both parents needs are taken care of the kids would be taken care of and the family would be a happer place. I do know it depends on the people. Sometimes it works the othere way. I feel a mom should take care of the kids and the the othere adult helps out when,they can. Mydaughter comes first. How ever back eons ago I hate to say this but the church came first. If I had it to do over again there would be alot less church....We lean by our mistakes.

12-10-2010, 09:59 PM	#11
blueeyes226_l Member How Do You Identify?: soft butch-I am who I am Relationship Status: single and looking Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: near Olean,N.Y. Posts: 119 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 37 Thanked 107 Times in 57 Posts Rep Power: 171	do kids come first. Hey,The othere post on putting kids first. I feel if both parents needs are taken care of the kids would be taken care of and the family would be a happer place. I do know it depends on the people. Sometimes it works the othere way. I feel a mom should take care of the kids and the the othere adult helps out when,they can. Mydaughter comes first. How ever back eons ago I hate to say this but the church came first. If I had it to do over again there would be alot less church....We lean by our mistakes.