Abuse in butch-femme relationships

[Gemme]

Originally Posted by dancer611

I don't know how I'll meet another butch who meets all my emotional and physical and spiritual needs like she did, and like I did for her; who I can love as completely and connect to as deeply; who I can tell anything to without judgment; who will be interested in me and I in them, and we will both have eyes only for each other; who I can give my whole heart to and love unconditionally, and who will do the same for me.

How can someone 'meet all your needs' if she's wailing on you and threatening you with weapons?

Listen to the others. Therapy, get into it. Stay far, far away from her. She is not healthy for you or herself in any way, shape or form.