Where do you try to meet people?

[laruss]

I am most definitely a Femme (whether I like labels or not) and out in the public you would not know my sexual orientation. But, I have never had a problem finding interesting people to date. Although I think it is much easier for Butches to be identified out there.

I would suggest being friendly and outgoing with everyone.

I have met people online, including here on BFP. There are also other dating sites you could join. Contact people, open discussions with them. What is the worst that can happen? Maybe they won't be interested, but if you don't approach you won't know. And don't take it personally if they aren't interested because they don't know you.

Lesbian dances and bars are great, just ask someone to dance.

Coffee shops, grocery stores, book stores, libraries and so much more.

Friends of friends are always good, go to every event you are invited to.

The most important thing though is your attitude. If you think you can't find anyone you are absolutely right, if you think you can find someone you are also absolutely right.

It is all about the energy that you put out. Just be careful because there is a fine line between available and desperate.

Really, just be yourself and open to the possibility of something great, and then make the first move.