having kids/being the nonbio parent

Heavenleahangel · 08-20-2012, 03:25 PM

This is going to be a unique reply, I am sure, but as a femme who fully embraced a very close friend and partner who was in tune with their own bodies/identities enough to want to carry a child and add to our family, I can rightly say I was 110% ready, willing and able to support my partner with carrying our child.

I have older bio children and regretted being unable to have another child, but felt blessed to be in the position to be a part of such a beautiful experience. It didn't matter to me the child would not have been my "gestational" child. He/she would have been my child none the less. My love knows no boundries and all children are precious.

Unfortunately, there was great difficulty in conceiving and she didn't/couldn't make her dream a reality, but I would still to this day stand by my partner and do whatever was needed to support a pregnancy.

08-20-2012, 03:25 PM	#4
Heavenleahangel Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Femme; Earth bound Angel and Babygirl; Preferred Pronoun?: She, Angel, as long as it's respectful Relationship Status: Waiting for the One who can complete me Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Albany, NY~but originally from Georgia Posts: 562 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,257 Thanked 2,068 Times in 468 Posts Rep Power: 18675554	This is going to be a unique reply, I am sure, but as a femme who fully embraced a very close friend and partner who was in tune with their own bodies/identities enough to want to carry a child and add to our family, I can rightly say I was 110% ready, willing and able to support my partner with carrying our child. I have older bio children and regretted being unable to have another child, but felt blessed to be in the position to be a part of such a beautiful experience. It didn't matter to me the child would not have been my "gestational" child. He/she would have been my child none the less. My love knows no boundries and all children are precious. Unfortunately, there was great difficulty in conceiving and she didn't/couldn't make her dream a reality, but I would still to this day stand by my partner and do whatever was needed to support a pregnancy. __________________ Sweet Georgia Peach