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Old 11-21-2016, 06:33 PM   #1
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An asexual "making out" with somebody doesn't seem kosher to me...why on earth would an asexual do such a thing? And in that case, it does seem to me that the OP is being toyed with, to a degree.
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There are different levels and types of asexuality.

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An asexual "making out" with somebody doesn't seem kosher to me...why on earth would an asexual do such a thing? And in that case, it does seem to me that the OP is being toyed with, to a degree.
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I have thought about the possibility of my being asexual, due to the fact that I haven't slept with anyone since my last serious relationship. Which was quite some time ago.

But, then as time went on, I realized that it was more about a combination of factors being present; feeling safe, feeling mutual love, and most importantly, feeling trust.

These things needed to be present in order for me to feel free to open up, sexually. I don't believe this to be asexuality, as far as my knowledge or understanding of the term.
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