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Silence.
I love silence it is very therapeutic to me. |
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If I'm angry I clean the house from top to bottom all at once...nothings gets "the mad out" quite like cleaning.
If I'm troubled or stressed...quiet and sometimes the escape of a nap. |
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This is true. I find I must make time sometimes in the chaotic world for simple silence. Sometimes we don't realize how much we need it until we make time for it.
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Walking whether it's taking the dog out or at the mall, walking helps my brain rest.
Journaling, I have kept a journal for a long time, writing things out helps too. Watching a lot of movies. |
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Fresh oatmeal cookies
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Doing Reiki on either myself or another person.
Hanging out in the Garagemahal doing picayune things that matter possibly only to myself. Teaching Sadie a new trick, and watching her eyes light up with excitement as she gets it. ![]() A good orgasm. Walking on the beach or along the banks of a slow moving river. Helping others. Did I mention a good cup of coffee?
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Soaking my working feet in lemon bubbles...
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Classical music or just some plain ol silence. A lot of the times during the 5 hour drive to Seattle from Eugene, it would be just the road noise and wind to keep me company.
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I find the sounds and smells of the ocean therapeutic. Something about it's vastness makes my troubles less overwhelming.
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Sometimes, just watching some crap tv.
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Working on crafts. Laying on Him and listening to His heartbeat. Like CCB, watching TV. Love People's Court and Judge Milian.
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I love all of these too. Sometimes it's the most overlooked things that I realize are really keeping me in balance underneath it all.
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Anyway to stay true to the thread, I also find fire, especially on water, very peace inducing. Barring burial at sea, which I doubt I will get, I would love it if someone would just stick me in a canoe, tow it out to sea a bit and set it on fire...after I'm dead of course.
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When I'm at home I find the following super therapeutic:
audiobooks or my fave music playing on the Bose something yummy simmering on the stove cleaning or purging items I don't need Facetime face masks or spa treatments fuzzy socks
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yelling at the TV!
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the sound and smell of the ocean.............
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Listening to my old fashioned kitchen timer ticking away while cookies bake. It reminds me of when I was little and the comfort of hearing my grandma's clock tick while I slept in her quiet room on visits.
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Good old-fashioned homemade food. Cooking and baking as much as I can from scratch. Feeding the ones I love their favorites and seeing them light up over something so simple. Food could be a love language by itself.
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