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Old 05-24-2010, 05:07 PM   #1
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Wrong list. That goes on the list of things to make partners bitter and, in time, vengeful.

Really? You think?

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a black board where you have written "I will not be a snot" one hundred million times....for the bad butch boi in you...

seriously...
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a black board where you have written "I will not be a snot" one hundred million times....for the bad butch boi in you...

seriously...
sounds like you have experience and issued an assignment. lol
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sighing..oh yes.....

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The following is what I, as a (butch) woman have (or not) in my house:

I don't drink alcohol. No alcohol in my house.

I work with dogs every day. No dogs (or cats or critters) in my house.

I love to cook. I have a well stocked pantry and fridge. I don't like anyone messing around in my kitchen, although I will make exceptions on occasion and try not to lose my mind in the process. I prefer to cook and you do the dishes.

I'm not crafty or creative in that sense. No macrame plant hangers..........actually no plants in my house at this time. Maybe I will have them again at some time.

Most all my books are in storage. I live in a studio apartment.

I have a double bed.....I live in a studio apartment. What idiot would not put clean sheets on the bed if you have a date coming over for supper?

My house is clean, especially the bathroom and kitchen.

I live in CA and have been recycling for at least 20 years.

I can tolerate limited smelly candles, incense. I do have some in my house. I prefer fresh air to smelly stuff.

I have bubble bath stuff because I like to take a bubble bath on occasion. It's not really smelly though. I have a 'dyke' labeled pushy thingy soap dispenser in my bathroom. Don't have that at my kitchen sink.

I have plenty of coffee mugs of all sizes. Pick what you want for this stay.

I have a nice deck with a little creek gurgling. This creek runs behind my building and you can hear it at night when all is quiet.

Maybe, later, I will post what I want to see in a femme's house. We will both be women so that well be an interesting comparison on what different types of women want in their home.
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i like to have a variety of different sizes of tampons and i share--just don't use the last one.
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i like to have a variety of different sizes of tampons and i share--just don't use the last one.
dang it all to hell.....see this is where I so fail miserably........I had my uterus and cervix removed in 1982 (where you born then?? <grin>) and I just have never ever bought tampons for my house since then. I don't bleed and haven't for years.........it's just not on my radar..........

I am a utter and complete failure .........
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Things i would love to see.....

Flowers, flowers and more flowers, sweet smelling lovely flowers.

Sunshine through the window.

Whispy shears letting in the gentle breeze.

Pictures of "your" family.

A clean bathroom.

Books on everything.

Music, and preferrably 70s rock.

A comfy cosey couch to snuggle on.

Dim lighting with candles that smell heavenly

knick nacks that show "your" personality
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I would like to see

cleanliness is a good sign..but OCD cleanliness is a red flag

dogs and cats are good..snakes are not.

food in the fridge that is not processed or solely microwavable.

ecofriendly environment is important too. Do you recycle? Are you concerned about the world?

lack of alcohol and drug culture. A bottle of wine or a small amount of beer is ok. Three bars in the house and a fridge just for the beer is not

pretty soaps set out for my visit in MY bathroom

my own coffee mug

something to do with horses somewhere in the house

fresh sheets

a nice library even if you own one of those kendall things. Good lord I still dont know what an ipod is and you all are doing something weird with books like you did with music..stop it!

if you use scented candles, incense, etc, none of it is vanilla because you know and havent forgotten it makes me gag

groceries. Let me make you dinner or bake something...

you. If I come to you, spend time with me. Its you I want...thats why I am there...



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Top 10 things i have in my house just for my Ms.

A variety of body washes.

Babyoil

Ice

Hummus

Taboulli

Pita Bread

Designated Belt

A nice space for my Ms to play her music.

Needles

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These are the thinga in my house at them moment that may work for a femme.

A well stocked kitchen with a bazillion applyances to us if u need them.

Cook books from so many places its unreal.

LOts of books,I have libary in the den and more books on shelves in the liveing room.

A movie collection of over two hundred tapes and cd's

Lots of music cd's and casets form the 60's till now.

Two loveable furry critters who will keep u laughing so hard u will hold your sides.

Fuguriens of all kinds,nortaki china,fsncy silver ware I dont use,crystle glases of all kinds.

Wood carveings from many place in the world.

A big double bed with clean sheets and cover...lots of pillows too.

A puter.

Tv in the liveing room,two extra ones in the garage incase I need one.

A cadilac seville that rides like a dream.

A fair sise shower with glass doors that had a detatchable shower head.

All I need is a princess for my castle....
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This thread may be depressing me.

I am, how shall I say this... spartan. Perhaps infamously so. (SHUT IT JUNE).

I'm not opposed to having nice things or things especially for the mythical "her", but I like everything in my home to serve a purpose. There's very little in my home that is extraneous.

I prefer my Kindle to books. I prefer my Netflix via Wii to DVDs. I think you get the idea... simple and uncluttered.

Perhaps to a fault.
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This thread may be depressing me.

I am, how shall I say this... spartan. Perhaps infamously so. (SHUT IT JUNE).

I'm not opposed to having nice things or things especially for the mythical "her", but I like everything in my home to serve a purpose. There's very little in my home that is extraneous.

I prefer my Kindle to books. I prefer my Netflix via Wii to DVDs. I think you get the idea... simple and uncluttered.

Perhaps to a fault.
How do you share a kindle?
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Simple. I don't. For me convenience trumps loanability. I travel far too much to carry books with me. Kindle is with me all the time.

Then again I did gift someone with my "old" Kindle which is still attached to my Amazon account and she's able to read all of the books I've bought. But that's just one person.
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Being a smart guy, I let my wife pick our house.
I saw it for the first time when I flew to the south from California to do the walk through and sign the deed paperwork.
So that little ditty is covered.

I don't care whats in it, or what colors she picks... or how she wants furniture arranged.

The house is hers, the garage,yard and shop is all MINE.

As long as I pick up after myself, I don't face the

I dont have a top 10, but she does.

LOL. Sounds like me, except instead of garage, yard and shop I have an office and "man cave" (for cigars and such)
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LOL. Sounds like me, except instead of garage, yard and shop I have an office and "man cave" (for cigars and such)

Hey,
Can I have a garage with a shop - or at least a LARGE shed- for all my power tools AND a small loft for my art stuff?
Just askin' for when I'm asked to do another oil change. I'll be sure to put my vanity with all my "femmie" stuff up in the art loft.

Andrew,
Can I put extra power strips down on my Xmas list?

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Being a smart guy, I let my wife pick our house.
I saw it for the first time when I flew to the south from California to do the walk through and sign the deed paperwork.
So that little ditty is covered.

I don't care whats in it, or what colors she picks... or how she wants furniture arranged.

The house is hers, the garage,yard and shop is all MINE.

As long as I pick up after myself, I don't face the

I dont have a top 10, but she does.
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when one is invited into my home:

drool towels..not for them to use because they drool, but to protect them from the infamous newf drool. Lay it in your lap and wait..especially when they come to tell you how good the water tasted out of the toilet bowl...and dont think I havent tried everything to keep them from doing that...I have...they win. Love me, love my newfs...

really nice long towels if they are staying overnite

their own bedroom..because at this point in time, I am not sharing beds.

reading material in the bathroom of his choice...I have three baths. Pick one and the material will appear...

a lint brush that will also remove cat and dog hair...

coffee in the morning made as they prefer it, in a cup that will be designated as his whenever he comes to visit and one I will use in the mornings sometimes when I am particularly missing him

a throne. This doesnt happen overnite. It takes him time to feel at home and to chose his place of honor. Some like to sit at the head of the table. Some like the end of the sectional. Some prefer a recliner. As long as its not MY throne, it becomes theirs when they come back.

beside his throne, a place of altar...things he needs...specific to him. Perhaps the tv guide and the remote. Or his favorite book he is working through on his visits to me. Or a bag of lemon drops and horehounds because he cant find them where he lives. Something, anything that says that I lovingly meet his needs

quietness. My house is very quiet. I dont often watch tv. I dont listen to alot of music. Even my appliances run quietly. It is a way of surrounding myself in the Present and keeping myself there. In the quiet of my home, he would find himself Present with me and I with him. In the early times of wooing, this is especially important. In order to build knowledge of the soul of another person, you really need to be Present with them in the Stillness so that you know you are meeting their Core and not their surroundings.

and in between the times of quietness, there will be times of his and her pleasures...does he like to watch Bruce Willis movies and tv shows (Moonlighting was wonderful!) Will he watch SeaBiscuit with me? Will we put on some country music and dance slow and close, as someone put it once, buckle rubbing music? Does he want to pop in a video game (horrors! I wouldnt know what to do if this happened!) or spend time on the computer? moments of activity to please him and myself, beyond and outside of the other...
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drool towels..not for them to use because they drool, but to protect them from the infamous newf drool. Lay it in your lap and wait..especially when they come to tell you how good the water tasted out of the toilet bowl...and dont think I havent tried everything to keep them from doing that...I have...they win. Love me, love my newfs...

really nice long towels if they are staying overnite

their own bedroom..because at this point in time, I am not sharing beds.

reading material in the bathroom of his choice...I have three baths. Pick one and the material will appear...

a lint brush that will also remove cat and dog hair...

coffee in the morning made as they prefer it, in a cup that will be designated as his whenever he comes to visit and one I will use in the mornings sometimes when I am particularly missing him

a throne. This doesnt happen overnite. It takes him time to feel at home and to chose his place of honor. Some like to sit at the head of the table. Some like the end of the sectional. Some prefer a recliner. As long as its not MY throne, it becomes theirs when they come back.

beside his throne, a place of altar...things he needs...specific to him. Perhaps the tv guide and the remote. Or his favorite book he is working through on his visits to me. Or a bag of lemon drops and horehounds because he cant find them where he lives. Something, anything that says that I lovingly meet his needs

quietness. My house is very quiet. I dont often watch tv. I dont listen to alot of music. Even my appliances run quietly. It is a way of surrounding myself in the Present and keeping myself there. In the quiet of my home, he would find himself Present with me and I with him. In the early times of wooing, this is especially important. In order to build knowledge of the soul of another person, you really need to be Present with them in the Stillness so that you know you are meeting their Core and not their surroundings.

and in between the times of quietness, there will be times of his and her pleasures...does he like to watch Bruce Willis movies and tv shows (Moonlighting was wonderful!) Will he watch SeaBiscuit with me? Will we put on some country music and dance slow and close, as someone put it once, buckle rubbing music? Does he want to pop in a video game (horrors! I wouldnt know what to do if this happened!) or spend time on the computer? moments of activity to please him and myself, beyond and outside of the other...
Damn you are very accommodating Girl!

I'm with you on the sleeping. I prefer to sleep alone. They would get their own bedroom, towels, etc.

BUT I'd show them where the coffee is and how I like it. I'd then give them a list of chores to do around the farm and if all went well I'd cook an awesome meal, wear something very pretty and he's be rubbing my feet whilst I perch on that throne! lol

Slow dancing sounds nice. If he was a really good boy I might even dance for him. (wink)

I love candles, nag champa, I like my space to be eclectic and have a nice spiritual feel about it . I am the Goddess of my domain and anyone who enters does so symbiotic with everything here. He must approach with great care, respect and compassion. I'm totally in no nonsense mood these days. Notice the hoops at the entrance of my long driveway.
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..especially when they come to tell you how good the water tasted out of the toilet bowl...and dont think I havent tried everything to keep them from doing that...I have...they win.
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