Showing scars: what are your relationship fears?

[girl_dee]

Originally Posted by Medusa

That's how I read it too and had a similar reaction!

Made me remember the time I dated someone (very long ago and not a person on this site) who portrayed themselves as being a nasty, experienced, toppy, strapping Daddy and they most certainly WERE NOT.

It was really disappointing and I felt sorry for the person thinking they had to create that persona but it was just flat-out dishonest so we didnt date long.

WORD.

i had a short D/s experience was with someone who claimed to have all of this experience, and wanted to get into this dynamic with me and pursue a relationship. it didn't take long for me to see she was not experienced and i lost all respect on every level (for outright lying) and that was that. i was fine, but for another submissive it could have been really bad.

we all put our best foot forward in the beginning, of course, but i try real hard to be my authentic me.