How romantic are you?

gotoseagrl · 07-11-2017, 08:28 PM

I am ridiculously, pathetically so. But I'm that way about life in general, as a very passionate person. So guess my relationships are not excluded from that. But, like everyone else, what I find romantic varies. For me, it's things with meaning. A handwritten note, or any kind of note, or taking a walk ... or reading a book together. It's not about the generic mainstream idea of what is romantic to everyone else and girls in general. Knowing specific things, big or small, that I would find touching is being romantic to me. And that is what I enjoy doing for my partner as well. In lots of little ways, regularly. Not just once a year or on their birthday.

~ Journaling together
~ Letters & notes
~ Doing puzzles together
~ Sharing music & other forms of art
~ Admiring nature & other places together
~ Having home-cooked meals together
~ Movie binging
~ Nerding out over stuff together
~ Genuine affection, at random times too
~ Hands on things they need help with

Obviously my love languages are quality time & touch.

2qt · 07-11-2017, 11:33 PM

lol I wouldn't say I am romantic... I am just the I like to show them appreciation without the overkill.... I prefer the little simple things that make me go thud & hopefully they are the same...

homoe · 07-12-2017, 05:22 PM

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Originally Posted by gotoseagrl

I am ridiculously, pathetically so. But I'm that way about life in general, as a very passionate person. So guess my relationships are not excluded from that. But, like everyone else, what I find romantic varies. For me, it's things with meaning. A handwritten note, or any kind of note, or taking a walk ... or reading a book together. It's not about the generic mainstream idea of what is romantic to everyone else and girls in general. Knowing specific things, big or small, that I would find touching is being romantic to me. And that is what I enjoy doing for my partner as well. In lots of little ways, regularly. Not just once a year or on their birthday.

~ Journaling together
~ Letters & notes
~ Doing puzzles together
~ Sharing music & other forms of art
~ Admiring nature & other places together
~ Having home-cooked meals together
~ Movie binging
~ Nerding out over stuff together
~ Genuine affection, at random times too
~ Hands on things they need help with

Obviously my love languages are quality time & touch.

I too am the language of quality time! I think it's essential in getting to know one and another!

AmazonDC · 07-12-2017, 05:54 PM

I like to think I am very romantic but you would have to ask Gemme...

Gemme · 07-13-2017, 04:57 AM

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Originally Posted by DaddyChrisCo

I like to think I am very romantic but you would have to ask Gemme...

You are!!!!

Kätzchen · 01-13-2026, 11:29 AM

So… I’m still made from the proverbial same fabric I’ve been made of (see all my prior posts in this thread and elsewhere) 👗

But my guy was listening to me, like a fly on the wall — here while back, and I was quietly singing along to Ellie Goulding’s “Love Me Like You Do” and while driving us to our dinner date, a few nights ago, he played this song for me in the car. 😍

This is the kind of romance that causes me to blaze across the dark night skies like a shooting star. 🥰

kittygrrl · 02-08-2026, 01:54 PM

well what we imagine ourselves to be is seldom the way we are seen...for me anticipation is one of the best parts, i love being surprised because that means she has been thinking of me

Stone-Butch · 02-12-2026, 11:31 PM

I am an old school Stone so if you dated one then you know we are super romantic.

07-11-2017, 08:28 PM	#1
gotoseagrl Senior Member How Do You Identify?: old-fashioned queer stone submissive girl Preferred Pronoun?: mermaid, very lucky babygirl Relationship Status: Saltwater mermaid ♡ Join Date: May 2010 Location: CA Posts: 2,209 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,192 Thanked 6,103 Times in 1,727 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I am ridiculously, pathetically so. But I'm that way about life in general, as a very passionate person. So guess my relationships are not excluded from that. But, like everyone else, what I find romantic varies. For me, it's things with meaning. A handwritten note, or any kind of note, or taking a walk ... or reading a book together. It's not about the generic mainstream idea of what is romantic to everyone else and girls in general. Knowing specific things, big or small, that I would find touching is being romantic to me. And that is what I enjoy doing for my partner as well. In lots of little ways, regularly. Not just once a year or on their birthday. ~ Journaling together ~ Letters & notes ~ Doing puzzles together ~ Sharing music & other forms of art ~ Admiring nature & other places together ~ Having home-cooked meals together ~ Movie binging ~ Nerding out over stuff together ~ Genuine affection, at random times too ~ Hands on things they need help with Obviously my love languages are quality time & touch. __________________ Be still when you have nothing to say; when genuine passion moves you, say what you've got to say, and say it hot. D. H. Lawrence

01-13-2026, 11:29 AM	#6
Kätzchen Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: Attached to my wonderful partner <3 Join Date: May 2010 Location: In a gated community. Posts: 16,520 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,177 Thanked 33,758 Times in 10,832 Posts Rep Power: 21474869	Time to bump this thread (again!) 💋 So… I’m still made from the proverbial same fabric I’ve been made of (see all my prior posts in this thread and elsewhere) 👗 But my guy was listening to me, like a fly on the wall — here while back, and I was quietly singing along to Ellie Goulding’s “Love Me Like You Do” and while driving us to our dinner date, a few nights ago, he played this song for me in the car. 😍 This is the kind of romance that causes me to blaze across the dark night skies like a shooting star. 🥰 __________________ “The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain,” — Kahlil Gibran 🌷🌷🌷🌷 🌷🌷🌷🌷

02-08-2026, 01:54 PM	#7
kittygrrl Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: 'Je ne sais quoi' Relationship Status: Til you believe Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: waking dream Posts: 10,183 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,807 Thanked 22,207 Times in 7,270 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	well what we imagine ourselves to be is seldom the way we are seen...for me anticipation is one of the best parts, i love being surprised because that means she has been thinking of me __________________ "Extinction is the rule. Survival is the exception Carl Sagan

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07-11-2017, 11:33 PM	#2
2qt Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her.. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Mothership Posts: 873 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 861 Thanked 1,966 Times in 582 Posts Rep Power: 15312204	lol I wouldn't say I am romantic... I am just the I like to show them appreciation without the overkill.... I prefer the little simple things that make me go thud & hopefully they are the same...

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AmazonDC Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Daddy Preferred Pronoun?: DC Join Date: Nov 2015 Location: colorado Posts: 499 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 346 Thanked 1,485 Times in 430 Posts Rep Power: 13453159	I like to think I am very romantic but you would have to ask Gemme...