Single FTM's & Femme's

sabedawi · 08-04-2017, 04:20 PM

Hello all... I just joined up, and this seems like a great thread to start. I need to vent.

OMG. I'm so done with being single!!! I feel like I'll never find what I'm looking for! I'm mega queer... masculine/butch/trans, seeking a femme or femme-ish woman.

It seems it's an impossible place to be....I'm off the grid for many lesbians because I don't entirely identify as 'woman'... at the same time, straight women aren't interested, because I don't have the appendage.

To top it off, I'm not great looking and have an obnoxious and cocky personality

Should I give up??

DapperButch · 08-04-2017, 05:10 PM

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Originally Posted by sabedawi

Hello all... I just joined up, and this seems like a great thread to start. I need to vent.

OMG. I'm so done with being single!!! I feel like I'll never find what I'm looking for! I'm mega queer... masculine/butch/trans, seeking a femme or femme-ish woman.

It seems it's an impossible place to be....I'm off the grid for many lesbians because I don't entirely identify as 'woman'... at the same time, straight women aren't interested, because I don't have the appendage.

To top it off, I'm not great looking and have an obnoxious and cocky personality

Should I give up??

Nahhhh, don't give up! Welcome to the site! We have queers of all stripes here!

imperfect_cupcake · 08-04-2017, 07:33 PM

Indeed. There are those out there like me who consider themselves ... well I have my own name for my sexuality and that's Queer Dyke. Meaning I am attracted to FtMs who see themselves as part of a queer masculine gender continuum, rather than those who are "I'm just regular straight bloke" masculine gender, I'm also attracted to genderqueer butches, garden variety butch, "soft" butch, and femme daddy/macho femme types.

There are people out there, it's sometimes very hard to find them.

Just leave your rod in the pond and wonder off to go create something lovely for yourself. Nibbles happen.

Teddybear · 10-09-2017, 08:37 PM

This thread always seems to just linger.

Femmes where are you?? FtMs where are you?

Holding a 2x4 waiting I know someone will need it

DapperButch · 10-10-2017, 06:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Teddybear

This thread always seems to just linger.

Femmes where are you?? FtMs where are you?

Holding a 2x4 waiting I know someone will need it

"Present"!

indigo · 12-07-2017, 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch

"Present"!

Here, too !!

Hominid · 03-19-2018, 09:55 PM

Never have been around a lot - single for a while but poking around the site again. I’m glad to see it’s still active!

08-04-2017, 04:20 PM	#1
sabedawi Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Alien Relationship Status: Forever alone Join Date: Jul 2017 Location: Leicestershire Posts: 1 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 0 Thanked 2 Times in 1 Post Rep Power: 0	lonely butch... too queer for love :( Hello all... I just joined up, and this seems like a great thread to start. I need to vent. OMG. I'm so done with being single!!! I feel like I'll never find what I'm looking for! I'm mega queer... masculine/butch/trans, seeking a femme or femme-ish woman. It seems it's an impossible place to be....I'm off the grid for many lesbians because I don't entirely identify as 'woman'... at the same time, straight women aren't interested, because I don't have the appendage. To top it off, I'm not great looking and have an obnoxious and cocky personality Should I give up??

10-09-2017, 08:37 PM	#4
Teddybear Senior Member How Do You Identify?: by my name Preferred Pronoun?: He, him Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Here there everywhere. Posts: 2,097 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,620 Thanked 6,233 Times in 1,687 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	This thread always seems to just linger. Femmes where are you?? FtMs where are you? Holding a 2x4 waiting I know someone will need it __________________ I am ME take me as I am or leave me be..

03-19-2018, 09:55 PM	#7
Hominid Member How Do You Identify?: Male with interesting historical perspective Relationship Status: Taking Applications Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: In perpetual Wonder. And Western Mass. Posts: 254 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 417 Thanked 753 Times in 187 Posts Rep Power: 11507409	Never have been around a lot - single for a while but poking around the site again. I’m glad to see it’s still active! __________________ Comfort the Disturbed Disturb the Comfortable

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08-04-2017, 07:33 PM	#3
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,708 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Indeed. There are those out there like me who consider themselves ... well I have my own name for my sexuality and that's Queer Dyke. Meaning I am attracted to FtMs who see themselves as part of a queer masculine gender continuum, rather than those who are "I'm just regular straight bloke" masculine gender, I'm also attracted to genderqueer butches, garden variety butch, "soft" butch, and femme daddy/macho femme types. There are people out there, it's sometimes very hard to find them. Just leave your rod in the pond and wonder off to go create something lovely for yourself. Nibbles happen.