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Only one has clearly identified as a lesbian. I will make it 2. I AM A FEMME LESBIAN.I've been reading alot of these posts this week (not this one, but others on id and nomenclature), hy, she, masculine, feminine, trans included, why weren't trans included, this is misogynistic, etc. I think you get the point.
![]() So I am struck by the lack of clarity thus far from the postings here and from folks that are usually very clear in other types of postings...are you a lesbian? I think that was the OP here.Why the lack of clarity? Were I in a playful mood, I'd tell a joke. Hell I'm going to tell it anyway. Lea Delaria has a joke about being in Provincetown and going into a jewelry store where on the counter rests a small sign, "20% Discount for Lesbians on All Store Items". And no one claimed it for the entire Memorial Day weekend. So she wonders, "How much of a discount WOULD folks need to say that they are lesbian? 25%, 30%, half off?" It's no wonder some folks in the BFP community are having trouble identifying other lesbians on this site. Sometimes I feel as if it's okay to be any darn thing in the world here on BFP except a lesbian...butch or femme.
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Hi Pretty Woman
![]() Sorry...just feeling the need for a little levity after the last few days. ![]() I'm a lesbian femme and pushy broad...and I'd take the discount on the jewelry too! Quote:
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i am a butch lesbian..that makes 3 now right(lesbians NOT butches)
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I don't really like restrictive labels for myself but when it comes down to it I am a femme lesbian hmm ok ultra femme lesbian
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I'm usually one of the first on the block to raise my hand to the lesbian question. Just sat down to the computer after work and dinner. Am I late to the party?
Yes, I am a lesbian. First and foremost, of all my "orientations" and proclivities. Lesbian!
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okay......Ill settle for a sniff test. ..
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L-E-S-B-I-A-N spells me
Skipping gaily through this thread to say unequivocally, I'm a lesbian, dyke, gay, bulldagger. Some people call this form of queer "butch". ETA: I wrote this merely 3 days ago because I thought Bully had started a thread to help identify and/or acknowledge those who are lesbians on the site. And yeah, I'll post this everyday if I have to. I don't want to, though. All this skipping and gaiety is exhausting. ![]() |
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funny that this thread came up today, on the day I was telling someone I was thinking BFP had become a gender debate planet, not a BF site.
I am a lesbian tho people have tried to call me other things. Some call me bisexual. Some call me queer. Some call me straight. Shrug. I call myself lesbian. I am a lesbian who has dated and been partnered with CIS men, transmen, TG, male IDd lesbians, female IDd lesbians and once, a long long time ago, a femme lesbian. She proved to me that there were indeed limits to who I would date..lol I hate the word queer. I grew up in the day when queer was a hate word. Ya I know, reclaim it and use it. Well, you can use it if you want. I hate it. I am a lesbian. And I am not going to polish up my opinion by saying "I dont like it"...because its politically incorrect to say you hate anything that someone might label themselves as. Sorry. I am talking about me and only me and I would hate that word if it were identified with me. I am a lesbian who has loved FtMs and TG and STILL considered myself a lesbian. For awhile I was kinda lost about the label and then I just didnt care what the politics of the day had become. I am a lesbian. I LOVE being a lesbian. And I love who I love and they can have any label they want...I will love them by name not label.
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Gayly prancing in, with an occassional leap, to twirl around and announce:
I too, am a lesbian!! No one has ever said anything about this to me. but then most people aren't negative to me but then I bite or maybe they are scared of me, cause ya know, I'm mean like that ![]() ![]()
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Can I just step up without leaping? Have anyone here actually seen the height of the heels I wear? lol Ok, I am a lesbian, ultra femme for those keeping score at home.
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Due to circumstances beyond my control, I am temporarily unable to leap. I will, however, be in prime leaping shape sometime late this summer. I'll warn everyone first.
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Yep, another non leaping lesbian. It seems as I get older, trying to find local community has gotten harder. Even spending time with my local friends, life has gotten in a hurry and there seems to be no time to socialize. I frequently have gone to see Suede at the Birchmere and it was jam packed. Last time I went, it wasn't hard to find a seat.
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The most beautiful images of all of us lesbians, leaping & cavorting, fill my mind every time I read the title of this thread. All of us in our many hued, many styles, many gendered splendor:-)
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Although I still consider myself a leaping lesbian, last Friday night at softball practice I realized that my softball glove is now 25 years old.
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*Warning*.......today I will attempt to leap!! This could be ugly, lol
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Really?! I haven't played softball in 30! Though there is a league called the Golden Girls and 1 gal has been trying to recruit me to play for close to 2 years....Now that could be uglier than watching me try to leap!
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I prefer to skip, but can be convinced to leap I supposeee...
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Wait a minute, wait a minute. I thought we were all lesbians.
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