Instant Turn-Offs - Page 9

clay · 01-23-2018, 08:38 AM

Someone who "plays" others

Racism

Disrespecting others who may be differently abled (superficial/shallow mindedness)

RockOn · 01-24-2018, 05:03 AM

someone at work ...

their every existance at work is very calculated ... they MUST do everything possible to underhandedly (smoke and mirrors effect) encourage others to always view them in a favorable light

undetectable unless you work very close to this person and pay very close attention ... then you can see this hand-crafted personality ... person will have perfect timing in displaying modesty, can also throw out believable lies on the fly with no hesitation

very well practiced in the art of deception ... (Rolling Stones song quote)

also, brings "social engineering" to my mind since I am a software developer ...

Social engineering can be defined as using deception and manipulation to obtain confidential information. I have found that is an interesting topic to read about. (google: books by Kevin Mitnick .... techniques are disclosed)

VintageFemme · 01-24-2018, 07:01 AM

The list seems to grow as I age. Not sure how I feel about that. Goddess, I hope I'm not becoming a crotchety old intolerant spinster!

Arrogance
Pretentiousness
Apathy
Self Centered
Religion
Emotional Immaturity
Disrespect
Lack of Manners

Martina · 04-09-2018, 02:50 PM

People who try to gross you out or are crude and disgusting without caring that they might be offensive.

candy_coated_bitch · 04-09-2018, 03:04 PM

Loud chewers.

cathexis · 04-09-2018, 05:03 PM

A person who arrives EARLY for a date or appointment is so rude especially
when they expect me to ready with shoes, socks, coat and any other outer-
wear on.
Even if they're on time, must be willing to stay and visit my family or any
friends who may be present. If I chose to have someone in my apartment
when going out, you better bet it's to form an opinion to talk about when I get
home or the next day.
The obvious, rudeness to anyone.
Any physical violence other that defense to an/impending attack
Poor table manners. You don't need to be raised wealthy to have proper basics. I'll show you about using your fork for ice cream, and how to pick a lobster.
Act/look like you care about yourself.

kittygrrl · 04-09-2018, 05:57 PM

the word..maybe
do say yes, or no

*Anya* · 04-09-2018, 05:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by candy_coated_bitch

Loud chewers.

Oh gosh, yes.

Also: people that chew with their mouth open.

I die a little death inside.

Lyte · 04-09-2018, 07:29 PM

The one and only time such behavior was acceptable... dare I say... almost cute!

Quote:

Originally Posted by *Anya*

Oh gosh, yes.

Also: people that chew with their mouth open.

I die a little death inside.

JDeere · 04-09-2018, 08:22 PM

Smokers sorry no can do.

Lyte · 04-09-2018, 09:42 PM

Me neither. I don't even have friends who smoke. I've tried!

Quote:

Originally Posted by JDeere

Smokers sorry no can do.

JDeere · 04-09-2018, 09:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lyte

Me neither. I don't even have friends who smoke. I've tried!

I quit back in 2014 and my ex quit not long after we got together. It aggravates my allergies really bad now and oh man the smell, I just can't.

Lyte · 04-09-2018, 09:46 PM

Good for you! It's incredibly hard to quit!

My bro finally quit too recently... like after 30 plus years.

Quote:

Originally Posted by JDeere

I quit back in 2014 and my ex quit not long after we got together. It aggravates my allergies really bad now and oh man the smell, I just can't.

JDeere · 04-09-2018, 09:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lyte

Good for you! It's incredibly hard to quit!

My bro finally quit too recently... like after 30 plus years.

Thanks and congrats to your bro on quitting as well, his health might improve too since he stopped smoking.

cathexis · 04-10-2018, 10:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JDeere

I quit back in 2014 and my ex quit not long after we got together. It aggravates my allergies really bad now and oh man the smell, I just can't.

Just 6 months ago, I quit smoking cold turkey a few days after a phone
call to my plastic surgeon. The nurse told me that my surgeon would not
operate if I was using tobacco of any sort.
That scared me into quitting cold turkey from 1-1.5 packs per day.

No meds, gum, lozenges, vapes Just incredible will! You can do it too.

Wanted Top Surgery more than lung disease.

JDeere · 04-10-2018, 10:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cathexis

Just 6 months ago, I quit smoking cold turkey a few days after a phone
call to my plastic surgeon. The nurse told me that my surgeon would not
operate if I was using tobacco of any sort.
That scared me into quitting cold turkey from 1-1.5 packs per day.

No meds, gum, lozenges, vapes Just incredible will! You can do it too.

Wanted Top Surgery more than lung disease.

Yup... I watched my godfather and one set of grandparents die from smoking related cancers. My doc won't even consider surgery unless i quit. I smoked even after my near death deal in 2010 but last straw was seeing what it does.

Martina · 04-11-2018, 05:10 AM

I have met some very nice over-sharers who turned out to be wonderful people whom I liked very much.

BUT, I still have to say, over-sharing. If I don't know you well, or even if I do, there are things I do not need to know.

Kätzchen · 04-16-2018, 09:58 AM

Being chased or stalked. Big deal breakers, to me.
Instant turn off.

Lovely · 04-16-2018, 10:40 AM

Pushy and passive aggressive personalities.
Manipulative personalities.
People pleasers.

JDeere · 04-17-2018, 07:16 AM

Religious zealots who try to throw stuff in my face, ive had a date do this.

Folks who cant text back.

01-23-2018, 08:38 AM	#161
clay Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch (Silver Fox) Dom Daddi Preferred Pronoun?: 50 Shades of Clay Darker & Deeper Relationship Status: married to my forever Join Date: May 2011 Location: salt air & sandy beaches Posts: 13,136 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 97,020 Thanked 31,664 Times in 7,748 Posts Rep Power: 21474864	Someone who "plays" others Racism Disrespecting others who may be differently abled (superficial/shallow mindedness) __________________ To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness. ~Robert Brault

01-24-2018, 07:01 AM	#163
VintageFemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Outside Posts: 2,299 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,828 Thanked 7,620 Times in 1,655 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	The list seems to grow as I age. Not sure how I feel about that. Goddess, I hope I'm not becoming a crotchety old intolerant spinster! Arrogance Pretentiousness Apathy Self Centered Religion Emotional Immaturity Disrespect Lack of Manners __________________ Unfinished Business & Open to Serendipity

04-09-2018, 02:50 PM	#164
Martina Senior Member How Do You Identify?: * Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: * Posts: 4,999 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,409 Thanked 18,283 Times in 4,166 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	People who try to gross you out or are crude and disgusting without caring that they might be offensive. __________________ "No matter how cynical I get, I just can't keep up" - Lily Tomlin

04-09-2018, 03:04 PM	#165
candy_coated_bitch Pixie Stick How Do You Identify?: The arteest formerly known as musicfemme. Preferred Pronoun?: She. Relationship Status: Happily taken. Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: Northampton, MA Posts: 11,293 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,723 Thanked 31,823 Times in 6,109 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Loud chewers. __________________ My Etsy Shop My Patreon My Website

04-09-2018, 05:57 PM	#167
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: gf Relationship Status: Uranus will retrograde in Gemini Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: in the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,658 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,706 Thanked 22,137 Times in 7,208 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	the word..maybe do say yes, or no __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

01-24-2018, 05:03 AM	#162
RockOn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: sitting over there ----->>>>> :) Preferred Pronoun?: .... Relationship Status: .... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .... Posts: 3,522 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,081 Thanked 10,304 Times in 2,610 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	someone at work ... their every existance at work is very calculated ... they MUST do everything possible to underhandedly (smoke and mirrors effect) encourage others to always view them in a favorable light undetectable unless you work very close to this person and pay very close attention ... then you can see this hand-crafted personality ... person will have perfect timing in displaying modesty, can also throw out believable lies on the fly with no hesitation very well practiced in the art of deception ... (Rolling Stones song quote) also, brings "social engineering" to my mind since I am a software developer ... Social engineering can be defined as using deception and manipulation to obtain confidential information. I have found that is an interesting topic to read about. (google: books by Kevin Mitnick .... techniques are disclosed)

04-09-2018, 05:03 PM	#166
cathexis Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Trotskyist, Anarcho-syndicalist Preferred Pronoun?: They, Them, Their, Sir Bitch Relationship Status: open Join Date: Sep 2016 Location: Great White North! Posts: 4,332 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,812 Thanked 4,705 Times in 1,604 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	A person who arrives EARLY for a date or appointment is so rude especially when they expect me to ready with shoes, socks, coat and any other outer- wear on. Even if they're on time, must be willing to stay and visit my family or any friends who may be present. If I chose to have someone in my apartment when going out, you better bet it's to form an opinion to talk about when I get home or the next day. The obvious, rudeness to anyone. Any physical violence other that defense to an/impending attack Poor table manners. You don't need to be raised wealthy to have proper basics. I'll show you about using your fork for ice cream, and how to pick a lobster. Act/look like you care about yourself.

04-09-2018, 08:22 PM	#170
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,833 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	Smokers sorry no can do.

04-11-2018, 05:10 AM	#177
Martina Senior Member How Do You Identify?: * Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: * Posts: 4,999 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,409 Thanked 18,283 Times in 4,166 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	I have met some very nice over-sharers who turned out to be wonderful people whom I liked very much. BUT, I still have to say, over-sharing. If I don't know you well, or even if I do, there are things I do not need to know. __________________ "No matter how cynical I get, I just can't keep up" - Lily Tomlin

04-16-2018, 09:58 AM	#178
Kätzchen Member How Do You Identify?: As a very feminine woman. Join Date: May 2010 Location: Near smoke signals in the sky. Posts: 16,209 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,450 Thanked 33,610 Times in 10,707 Posts Rep Power: 21474868	Being chased or stalked. Big deal breakers, to me. Instant turn off.

04-16-2018, 10:40 AM	#179
Lovely Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Join Date: Jan 2018 Location: Canada Posts: 27 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 75 Thanked 73 Times in 21 Posts Rep Power: 429506	Instant turn-offs Pushy and passive aggressive personalities. Manipulative personalities. People pleasers.

04-17-2018, 07:16 AM	#180
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,833 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	Religious zealots who try to throw stuff in my face, ive had a date do this. Folks who cant text back.

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