Top 10 Lesbian Myths

[carrotbottom]

Not really a myth, but I still somehow have people asking me in 2018 if I neeeed to use gay sex toys to have quality sex with a woman. Like as if they don't think cunnilingus, fingering or even scissoring is adequate enough! Pretty ridiculous, anyway that was my mini-rant

[Chained Daisy]

Originally Posted by carrotbottom

Not really a myth, but I still somehow have people asking me in 2018 if I neeeed to use gay sex toys to have quality sex with a woman. Like as if they don't think cunnilingus, fingering or even scissoring is adequate enough! Pretty ridiculous, anyway that was my mini-rant

And how would you differentiate `gay sex toys` from `straight sex toys` ?

Surely a sex toy can be used by any sexual orientation ?

[MaddieRobbie]

...the term "lesbian sex".

When I'm having sex I never think "Hey, this is really good lesbian sex" just as when I eat breakfast and think "These are seriously good lesbian eggs", you know?

It's just sex.

I also hate when anyone asks "Who's on top?" It shows how people only see sex through the antiquated view of gender - that someone's gotta be the girl, and someone's gotta be the boy.

I've also gotten some grief from being "too femme" from others. Mostly in college where the my wearing a sundress or having long hair was seen as some kind of "betrayal to the cause". I caved too - shaving my head, wearing less obviously "feminine" clothing - but I found I didn't like the hypocrisy of people who didn't like being told how to live their lives...telling me how I should live mine.

...just my two cents worth.