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|  07-18-2010, 10:19 AM | #181 | 
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			a dark, rich cup of hot coffee a gentle rain shower looking out over my pond at sunset watching the birds at play a quiet house early in the morning or late at night a day of doing nothing comfort food southern style a phone call from a friend, just to say hi Norah Jones 
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|  07-18-2010, 11:01 AM | #182 | 
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			its fairly obvious that working in my garden or being with horses or animals in general, give me peace. I pray and meditate in and out of the garden but somehow working in it clears my head and gives me the peace I need to know what I am suppose to do, or where I ventured wrong and how I can make the most of my relationships and life.
		 
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|  07-18-2010, 12:13 PM | #183 | 
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			Getting to the coast or the lakes before everyone else and getting in a kayak and paddling around and taking in the scenery. Then rigging the rod and casting away my hearts desire. Paddling back in, while everyone else is trying to get out to where I had just had my ultimate quiet bliss. Kicking back on the picnic table and just taking it all in. | 
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|  07-18-2010, 12:16 PM | #184 | 
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			The music in my Zune  
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|  07-18-2010, 12:47 PM | #185 | 
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			*I* am grateful for Snowys music too.    | 
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|  07-18-2010, 01:26 PM | #186 | 
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			mowing....yeah go ahead and laugh but it really does
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|  07-18-2010, 01:54 PM | #187 | 
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			Air conditioning...   
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|  07-18-2010, 02:19 PM | #188 | 
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			the capacity to let go; to trust myself to do what I do best.
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|  07-30-2010, 02:52 PM | #189 | 
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			not being pressured by anyone about anything, and if i feel 'sense of urgencies' galore, removing them from my life. a lengthy list of prep-work/ingredients getting to know people / letting them into my life slowly instead of knowing/revealing every single detail about who they are, and i am, in the first hour or few weeks. motorcycle rides | 
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|  07-30-2010, 04:57 PM | #190 | 
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			Setting strong boundaries pertaining to how me, my dog and my home will be treated...and sticking to them. Jesse 
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|  07-30-2010, 07:24 PM | #191 | 
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			Absolutely no sound in this house other than the sound of my breathing, Lucy's snoring and the hummmm of my AC....
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|  08-04-2010, 11:49 AM | #192 | 
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			- Time with my family (but not too much time - LOL). - Yoga, yoga, and yoga. - Swimming or being in water of any kind...totally turns my mind off and I transcend time and space. - Laughing with friends. - Traveling with SB, discovering far off places and existing outside myself for awhile. - Listening to the kitties snore while I read a good book in my PJs. - Snow. | 
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|  08-04-2010, 11:54 AM | #193 | 
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			Being on any of the Sound-side beaches in Montauk...
		 
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|  08-04-2010, 12:00 PM | #194 | 
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			Having a sit-down with my inner self
		 
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|  08-04-2010, 12:29 PM | #195 | 
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			hot fudge sundaes followed by a beer chaser....    | 
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|  08-18-2010, 10:49 AM | #196 | 
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			 ~ the sound of surf and the smell of the salt air, soothes my soul ~ a starry night ~ lookin at the moon - full and a small cresent are my favoites ~ the house when it is silent ~ in my sweetie's arms   | 
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|  08-18-2010, 11:42 AM | #197 | 
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			Being in my jacuzzi bath in the dark except for the flickering lights from flames of the candles.
		 
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|  08-18-2010, 12:33 PM | #198 | 
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			Being alone, still and silent.
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|  08-18-2010, 01:35 PM | #199 | 
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			being independent, having a sense that I am going in the right direction in my life after all the drama that has happen over the past 3 years with me.
		 
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|  08-18-2010, 04:26 PM | #200 | 
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			talking to my exes from years ago and them telling me they are happy for me and we are working on friendships. Its so nice to grow out of resentments and lay down sorrows and just enjoy people for who they are and not what pasts you shared. Something made us couple together. Its that part of us that we now share, except not romantically
		 
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