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I think if a bf of mine said to a girl in a bar, "while you are down there" I would
1) question why he would talk trash to a strange girl 2) question why he would think it was an appropriate thing to say when he is in a relationship 3) question his ability to make proper judgements about other things beyond the safety of the zipper of his pants 4) question why I am in a relationship with someone who would make me question 1, 2 and 3 5)tell my BF that being honest doesnt make you unaccountable for your lack of good judgement. It just means you are throwing it all out there at once so you wont have to go thru it inch by inch 6) decide if a strange girl could put her mouth there on a dare, I sure wasnt going to put my mouth there again out of love. The sacredness of our sex would have been violated, and what makes it even worse, is that it was all funny. It wasnt even done seriously... not picking on you, Cody...it just struck a raw cord in me. You didnt upset me..the scenario did... Quote:
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Wait until you get home to point out that she haz mouth gooey's.
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and she did it as a joak!!! he he ya know fun? see thats why i said never let it happen!! it was a reaction and fun was had by all.. im sorry your so up tight about it. |
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07-30-2010, 11:50 PM
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Again, she puts a different value on things than you do. If there is anything I've learned from this thread, it's that each of us have very different ideas of what is important in a relationship and in interactions with a partner. That doesn't make any of them wrong or right.
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Has common courtesy and consideration gone out of style?
For the record, if my partner came home with another girl's lipstick on their crotch, they'd sleep on the couch or floor that night while I figured things out and then they'd most likely get out the next day. I do not play games like that because...when *I'm* with *my* friends and some butches come up and we're all messing around and when another butch puts parts of their body on mine...whether joking or not...*my* partner would get upset, and rightfully so. That shit feels terrible and I don't want to be with someone who can so easily minimalize my feelings. I'm with softness on this one. The scenario sucks; this is NOT a judgement call on any of your past experiences, cody. Just the situation as it would apply to me.
If I were single and that happened, it would be a totally different situation because I would not have a relationship with someone else that should be honored above temporary fun. Quote:
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It's not you having to defend yourself it's what NOT to do right? I mean I am a girl and if there were a bunch of butches *yacking* it up I certainly would not think that me putting my mouth on any part of them especially if they are with someone is OK and hell I am a pretty open person and sexual but still know boundaries. I guess that is what makes us all different in the long run, you see it as a joke and well some of us see it as poor choice on the girls part for not listening to you that you had a girl and you contemplating lying to your girl. Lesson in all this is. Milk sharing is icky beyond all get out right up there with SCAT and allowing girls to put their lips on one's crotch ARE NOT good things for a relationship! 
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don't take his last dollar bill out of the big daddy wallet because he likes to always have one for a coke in a can
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I've always said that, when you're with someone, don't do things that they could even interpret as being improper. Consider their feelings and how they might see it before you do something that you may feel (and know) is innocent, but they may view it differently. Why do things that beg for trouble??
I think the most valued traits in a healthy relationship are respect and consideration. If you don't have those two basic things, you don't have anything. ~Theo~ 
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lol...I know, Cody, I AM uptight about it...lol....like I said this was just what *I* would do...
I am cool with you...I wasnt replying like I was talking to you...I was replying in general. I think you are a great guy and definetely have your way of doing things and what works for you is what works for you and I will defend your right to be who you are to then enth degree.... no intended nastiness from me, Cody...  nor from anyone else, from what I see. We are all just saying how we would react if it happened to us....Quote:
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dont take better care of an ex than you do me. If you are in a relationship with me, dont tell me I need to be self sufficient but an ex needs your help. I will resent the hell out of both of you...
Dont tell me I cant have a horse. Seriously, dont. It will be one of the straws that break the camel's back... dont make fun of my family. God help you. There is nobody perfect in this world and we all have our issues but if you amplify my family's issues into a good set of jokes around the table with friends, you will be served shit on your plate the next day... ooo...does that count as scat???
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"well i am not saying anything you haven't said, what is the problem?"
seriously? you have to ask? which reminds me of another one that maybe only 50% see my way- i am not one hundred percent happy with the design of one of my tattoos. it is my own design. i have mentioned that i would change this one little part of it. one of my exes, when someone complimented my tattoos, said to the complimenter "yeah except that top one needs some work" WTF? we fought about it, she had no clue why that would upset me...does anyone else get why i was upset? |
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DO NOT!!! become a stage 5 Klingon one week into dating.....
If you ARE a stage 5 please advice all parties involved.
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