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02-23-2011, 06:16 PM
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02-23-2011, 06:40 PM
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Babydoll is a start.... Relationship Status:
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I have been told more than once I wasn't a lesbian...I think I AM queer though...
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02-23-2011, 09:10 PM
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It's difficult for me to explain why Queer works better for me than any other label. Part of my explanation would involve why I ruled the others out but then that tends to make people feel as if I'm putting their choices down or negating them somehow.
So for me, my Queer identity revolves around who I partner with. I'm still Queer if I'm single. I'm still me and that is who I am. Gah. LOL I'm finding it very difficult to voice this. Oh hell. I'm here. I'm Queer. Let's go shopping. |
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02-23-2011, 09:14 PM
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I'm as Queer as a 3 dollar bill. And a little bit giddy too.
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02-23-2011, 09:19 PM
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Hey boy!!! Relationship Status:
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i never claimed queer...queer claimed me!!!
i was born this way!!! 
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02-23-2011, 09:28 PM
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06-13-2012, 06:21 PM
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06-13-2012, 06:38 PM
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For me, coming around to claiming queer took a while, I only solidly claimed it about a couple of years ago.
For years I would see the definition that Stacy posted and think "yeah that's alot of me". But Queer always carried a social stigma where I come from - the South. It always seemed like saying the N word or F*g word. Derrogatory somehow. But as my journey progressed, I am so diverse in my sexuality and presentation that no other labels truely fit me. I am bi-sexual, except I haven't been with a bio-male in over 17 years. But I didn't feel claiming Lesbian was proper, seemed misleading some. I present rather butch, but sexually am way more feminine. So I never felt quite right identifying as Butch, because I felt there were expectations that went along with that. (I am also evolving and learning that there are all kinds of butch.) I am attracted to all kinds and don't limit myself, so identifying as the opposite of what I prefer to date didn't work either. Then a couple of years ago, I dated Dixie and she identified as Queer. She's very unique in many, many ways and I liked the way she embraced it. So I thought, "I can do this too." So there you go.....I'm QUEER. Get to know me and you will learn all my diversities. A |
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07-17-2013, 12:39 AM
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Queer here as well
Att first I really didn't want to call myself that but in the end I had to give up...
But above all, I got tired having to defend my identity to ppl all the time. I felt that all other identities I had to somehow "prove" more of less and since I couldn't do that, I found that frustrating. But the term queer is harder to question. Why wouldn't I be queer? I don't know if anyone gets what I'm saying?
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