Butches: How do you like to be romanced?

[atomiczombie]

I am sure I will think of more things, but here is a few:

I love it when a femme cooks for me. Invite me over for a meal, that means so much. Of course, it makes me want to have sex with her even more, lol, but I am more than capable of taking no for an answer and not pressuring. I also like it if she makes it obvious if she really likes me. I am not the best at picking up signals, unfortunately. If she is really interested, she will have to bang me upside the head with a 2x4 to get that across. If I offer her a back rub, or touch her shoulder or her back, it means I want to kiss her. If she doesn't respond, then I will assume she isn't receptive. Sometimes I just can't tell, so then I ask if it is okay.

Please, femmes, don't get mad if I bring you It doesn't mean I expect anything in return, I am just trying to do something nice for you with no strings attached. That goes for anything else I might do; just because I do it that doesn't mean I expect something in return, like a gift, or sex.

I love making out, and I am fine with stopping short of going further. Making out is something I really look forward to on a date, but if that is uncomfortable for someone, I really appreciate if she says so upfront. I love it when a girl shows me she really cares and is interested. I show it by giving greeting cards between dates, or just calling to say 'I am thinking about you'. If she does small gestures such as this, it really means a lot to me. My ex-wife was a really good singer, and when we were first dating she would sing something just for me. I loved that. I love holding hands too. Cuddling is a must! I am, after all, a snuggle bunny

That's all I have, I am sure I will be back with more.

[rande]

Yep....all of the above....

I like it when a femme looks me in the eye and lets me know I'm wanted.
Like you, sometimes I can't tell the signals. The old adage "treat folks like you want to be treated" doesn't always work here. Romance is its own universe.

A femme cooking for me is apt to turn me on, but yes...I'm ok at taking no for an answer. Getting to that point is fun, too. lol!

I love holding hands, holding one another in public....I love it when my darling touches my cheek, or pulls me close by a belt loop, or looks at me from across the room like there's nobody else in the world.

Kissing....making out 'til we can't stand it any longer.....

When a femme dresses in one of my shirts....when she takes hours and looks absolutely stunning and I know she did it for me....when she wakes up next to me, with love in her eyes....when we're sitting next to each other, and she pecks my cheek.

and when she accepts me as I am, without trying to turn me into something I can never be.

What can I say? Now that's what turns me on!

[homoe]

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