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Old 09-21-2011, 05:38 AM   #4
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I agree that it's her thing, not yours.

I'd just put it back where I wanted it. Then if she says something again, say the minimal. (I find the minimal always to be the safest bet.) Like, say, oh, yeah, sorry, but I never even look in there unless someone comes up. End of your part of discussion.

If she continues talking just nod and be pleasant but stay on message: I do understand but I promise you I don't even see what's way back there.

Then it's up to her to escalate if she wants, and she's not going to do that because she probably is just squatting on FB.

Good luck.

(Try to channel Jim from The Office when you get to the nod and be pleasant part.)
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