Abuse in butch-femme relationships

[Lady Pamela]

Originally Posted by dancer611

I should add that she very much wants to get back together with me. She has apologized profusely, and tells me every day that I'm the only person she ever wants to be with, and believes I am the one. This is making it even harder to stay strong and say no.

May I first say, If you need someone to talk to who understands..I offer my ears, shoulder and advice...I have endured and dealt with such.

But I will say I am blunt in my words. And I call it as I see it.

I do not think you deserve to have to FIX anything other than your healing.

It is not YOURS to fix. It is anothers problem.

You should never take abuse.
And I will say bluntly...Most cases of abuse excell. They stop for a short time then continue. Ask anyone who has endured such.

Better yet, any womans shelter can define and prove what I just said.

Anyway, if your interested in just having an ear..drop me a line. ladypamelasworld@aol.com

Namast'e